AtLA, CAPS(LoK) and other random fandom

There needs to be a term for a pairing that you don’t really ship, but you don’t not ship. It’s slightly more than indifference. Like I approve of this pairing but I’m not going to die on this hill.

not an otp or a notp… an OKtp

it's okay if you as a lesbian want to fuck the straight blonde popstar but you can't be pretending she's a lesbian too girl at least make it a lesbian corruption kink or some shit

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sometimes it's hard to lowkey like zutara when people are bashing aang and calling him everything but a child of god. like please my guy deserves better and zuko and katara would be lost without him, they're a poly trio.

When the topic becomes about racism between children you very quickly realise children of colour aren't seen as children but as some other thing that should just take the abuse and then forgive the Real White Children because they didn't know better. They don't understand it but children of colour can and will very early in their youth.

Probably this is rooted in the notion that children as a whole are "innocent and perfect" which I suppose is an ageist idea- infantilizing and strips them of any complicated dimensions, including negative ones. The negative emotions invoked by the racism, and the negativity that aims the racism. Until children reach a certain age, they are just seen as less-than-people, who exist in an untouchable lake of not-yet-fully-real.

Im glad they made up romance for stories and music but can you imagine how scary it would be to deal with all that for real

And that's why I only rarely proceed past the yearning stage...

or it could be that you’re grayromantic

I wonder if any of these people are bi but in sapphic relationships so submitted anyway

What the hell happened to the energy around gender neutral bathrooms. Remember when we were fighting for all bathrooms to be gender neutral. But now we can barely argue that people can use the gendered bathroom of their choice. Maybe there's some single stall bathroom tucked away in a basement somewhere.

My apologies, Tumblr User cranky-crab-crabby-crank, I forgot that it's also about people's weird hangups about gender too. And alleged scent marking in bathrooms?

Oh mood. Had to end things with a long-time friend back in January, and he sent me an e-mail after I had that conversation with him (blocked him after) that, as well as a big BUT WHY?!??!????, stated that he'd rather cut off one of his arms than hurt me. Completely overlooking the fact that he already had hurt me many times, some of them quite recent, and yet he still had both arms.

This reads like autistic people discussing some emotive-non-literal thing the NTs have said lately, and being angry it wasn’t literal, ngl.

Might want to check out the play A Doll's House for an example of this talk that predates modern autism discourse.

wow this must be the single most obnoxious reply i've gotten on tumblr in years, bro not everything is about and for you specifically

Oh mood. Had to end things with a long-time friend back in January, and he sent me an e-mail after I had that conversation with him (blocked him after) that, as well as a big BUT WHY?!??!????, stated that he'd rather cut off one of his arms than hurt me. Completely overlooking the fact that he already had hurt me many times, some of them quite recent, and yet he still had both arms.

This reads like autistic people discussing some emotive-non-literal thing the NTs have said lately, and being angry it wasn’t literal, ngl.

Might want to check out the play A Doll's House for an example of this talk that predates modern autism discourse.

Oh mood. Had to end things with a long-time friend back in January, and he sent me an e-mail after I had that conversation with him (blocked him after) that, as well as a big BUT WHY?!??!????, stated that he'd rather cut off one of his arms than hurt me. Completely overlooking the fact that he already had hurt me many times, some of them quite recent, and yet he still had both arms.

This reads like autistic people discussing some emotive-non-literal thing the NTs have said lately, and being angry it wasn’t literal, ngl.

queer allies as a rule have got to get more normal about the idea that trans women can have periods

Except sugar is only going to worsen your mood in aggregate …?