PSA about a toxic rp u should avoid
hi so iβm gonna make a psa about the group degrassidivided-rp bc the mods are v v rude & problematic and it is not a good environment to be in. also let it be known that i wouldβve considered myself p good friends with both of the mods up until i quit so itβs not even like i was just some random person in the group, either.
they get mad at people for breaking their in-character clique rules but the modβs characters can do w/e they want and nobody gets to say anything about it
the members themselves are cliquey like good luck w/ trying to plot lmao
the mods consistently talked shit about some members with other members (iβm not gonna say who tho cuz iβm not THAT petty, butβ¦)
one of my friends stopped getting on her character during a low point in her life bc she had a lot of problems going on and they knew that but they kicked her out of the group regardless bc they βneeded activityβ
they also purposely said shit to that friend when she was going through a breakup to try and hurt her bc she was down & threw it in her face. like ok..
another person tried quitting & they made her cry and told her she was overreacting & invalidated her feelings. thereβs more i could say on that whole thing it was so messy
one of the mods accepted a person i had a MAJOR personal problem with (they spent hours attacking me w/ their friends about my dying dog and about two of my grandparents being sick and close to death and told me to get over it, etc) and they knew of this problem and told me βwell sheβs going to tell you sorryβ as if that was going to make me forget any of that happened likeβ¦. and i even offered to quit if they wanted her in the group, that i just wasnβt comfortable being anywhere around her bc it gave me anxiety
was also told by other members that i was overreacting because of ^
i just recently quit bc i was not happy there anymore (and iβve been there since the beginning of BOTH rounds of it so like 2 years or something) and instead of accepting that as a reason, i got accused by one of the mods of quitting just bc i wasnβt getting a ship. you can read the whole convo here. itβs honestly ridiculous.
i was using the group as of late as a distraction from my grandmaβs passing and tried explaining that it wasnβt a good distraction anymore and i didnβt want to be there but apparently that wasnβt a good enough reason to quit and was just a lie. ????
i got blamed for βnot plottingβ when i wasnβt online because my grandma was dying and i was in & out of the hospital daily with her and my family
my friend got bitched at for quitting, after me, instead of them just letting her quit too (you can read the texts here)
one of the mods tried to accuse me of talking shit about said friend while she was quitting. like who the fuck tries to ruin friendships over someone wanting to quit a rp? fucking petty.
basically donβt join this rp if u ever want to quit at any time bc theyβll just berate u. they donβt care about the members they just want characters filled (thatβs why one of the mods is playing five characters when sheβs hardly ever even on and the other is playing two, + multiple people doubling). they expect u to give more of a shit abt rping than ur real life lol
this group is just bad tbh and it shouldnβt have been revived after it died the first time, avoid it at all costs :)
