Advice to my fellow Dany/Jonerys stans:
I decided to make this post because i see manyĀ sweet people from the got fandom being absolutely heartbroken, and I want to help.
Iām not an expert, and probably the advice that I will write ,you it know it already BUT I hope my advice can become somehow useful. If someone feels alone and wants to chat , rant, cry , laugh it off with memes Iām here ā¤. So:
Donāt watch the finale if you feel you canāt handle it. It will only make you feel so much worse.
If you watch it allow yourself to cry , to scream , call a friend and tell him/her how you feel. You need to get the heavy burden out of your chest. ( SERIOUS NOTE: DONāT DO STH THAT WILL HARM YOURSELF. JUST DONāT. YOU ARE A RAY OF SUNSHINE.YOU DONāT DESERVE PAIN)
Stay off from the internet. It will make matters worse.
If you decide to log in, blacklist certain tags and associate only with the dany/jonerys fanbase. Please DONāT visit the hateful tags. The haters donāt deserve your attention.
Donāt let it consume you. Focus on your school/university/work. Your education/ career is very, very important.
Find comfort in the people you love and tell them about your feelings. Hug them tightly and cry on their shoulder.
Find something that makes you laugh and distracts you from sadness. For me is watching Jar Jar Binks meme videos š
Donāt stay in. Go for a walk. Breathe some fresh air.
One of the most important ones: Take care of yourself. Donāt let yourself go.
When you feel more ready, be creative. Fan fiction or fanart or anything else! Even if you donāt publish it and keep it for yourself itās alright! Creativity is a healer.
Engage into other fandoms. Find a new t.v. show, a new book , a new movie anything that will make you start feel better.
Keep the good times. Like the chemistry of the actors, beautiful gifsets and edits, fanmade videos, good fanfiction , the good friends you made from this fandom, anything that gives you happy memories and positivity.
Last but certainly not least, is that if you feel that as the time passes nothing gets better seek therapy.
I hope I somehow helped. This is very hard period for us , but Iām sure we can make it.
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