Thinking on paper: journaling your way to decisions
One of the unexpected things journaling brought me was a new way to make decisions. I thought journaling would be more a form of memory keeping with words. I thought I would talk about how I was feeling. I didn't think I would start journaling my way to decisions.
But its remarkably effective. So much so that ensuring I have space to do it is part of my selection criteria for a new journal. Apparently, I think well on paper.
Let me talk you through an example. I, along with everyone else in the planner community, spent most of August trying to work out what journals I want. I'm currently trying what I call the three (plus one, plus many) book system. Three books for different purposes - planning, progressing things and pondering, plus a separate book for work and some companion booklets. That was itself the product of a lot of journaling about what was and wasn't working. But now I have that, there is a new question - what planner do I buy for each slot.
Where I was when I sat down to make choices was as follows:
I plan in booklets in a standard size Traveller's Notebook
I progress in an A5 common planner (2 part)
I ponder in a Hobonichi Cousin
I plan work in another A5 common planner (2 part)
But those choices were based, with the exception of the Cousin, on repurposing things I already had. Only the Cousin is serving its original purpose. So, when planner season hit, what did I do.
I planned. And I journaled. Looking back over my Cousin for the last month or two shows I wrote about this at least a couple of nights a week. During late August, I wrote more often, as the recent 'reveals' finished and I could start to make decisions.
I did research. I watched the videos and made plans. And then I revised those plans. In particular, I spent a lot of time considering what I wanted as an everyday carry (my planning book). I assumed the others were easy. And then, when I sat down and worked my way through these, I made changes I wasn't expecting.
The initial plan
What turned out to be the easiest was the progress planner. Early on I considered whether I wanted dated dailies or not, decided I didn't and that was fairly easy. the Common Planner works well. I'm going to stick with it. [editing Morrighan: I did not stick with it].
The journal came next. I was interested in the Sterling Ink Daily Planner versus the Cousin. The big difference being that the former did not have weeklies. Otherwise the Sterling Ink offerings are a bit more to my aesthetic and don't have the quotes taking up space. But I didn't 'love' it. Here's an extract from the journaling:
"My reservations with the daily planner are the colour and the way the pages are headed. Mulberry [a Common Planner which has blank pages in this colour] fixes both. But I have to set it up. And what will I do with the weeklies?" The headings of the daily planner are in two different font sizes and split into two sections. Its completely irrational, but I don't like it! To the point where it was bothering me. With blank pages, I could write my own consistently formatted headings.
So I wrote a bit further and came up with ideas for the weeklies. At this point my decision was made. By finding enthusiasm for the weeklies, the decision fell into place.
Could I have worked through this in my head? Maybe. And this next bit is an odd way of explaining it, but I feel that when I have a lot of things to consider, its better if I put them on paper. For me this does three things:
It solidifies my ideas, making them tangible and specific.
It allows me, a very visual person, to see those thoughts as a concrete thing.
It empties my head of things I am trying to keep in mind, allowing room for new thoughts.
For the next decision, the last one came very much into play. Because what I had thought was the most settled choice - the planner for work - went somewhere else entirely.
I started out by writing out where I thought I was. A compact A5 Common Planner. And then this happened:
"Or I could do something cool with booklets? A blank option might work better, but, again, more work [to set up] when my time is pressed most [at work]. If only the weeklies came in A5, or could I use an N1 for work.
That's an interesting idea. Since desk space is at a premium that could work. And I often use the length over depth. So work = N1 booklets."
And then I talk myself into N1 Horizontal Weeklies, but confirm I don't need Monthlies.
This was an idea I had never entertained before. After a failed experiment with A6 for work (if its smaller, I will write down fewer tasks, was the theory), I was set on A5. Over the years I've always used A5 or near A5 planners for work, mostly in more of a bullet journal format. It was only by writing down the original idea that I could come up with a new idea. I like to challenge my thinking when I journal through decisions because it can lead to things like this. Something energising and exciting. To the point where I am going to have to stop myself from implementing it immediately so as not to waste a perfectly good journal.
And then I ended with the everyday carry. The one I was having most trouble with. It was going to be N1. That I as sure of. I had two options. I liked both. I wrote down the pros and cons and the concerns and the things that enthused me. One of them was an N1 full year. One was N1 booklets. My booklets concern was the cost. The N1 full year was in the pretty colour.
But, having made a decision to use booklets for work (the companion booklets came later), my enthusiasm for more of them was sated. Sure, it would be nice having a stack of Traveller's Notebooks. But it felt like I had scratched the itch. The cost for a full year of booklets was more than double the other option. That sealed it - I could choose the N1 full year.
The changes my journaling had wrought were pretty significant. If you had asked me even the day before, I would have given different answers for two of the planners and been sure of it. I was failing to make a decision on a third. Only one of my earlier choices remained.
The other thing I noticed, was that my enthusiasm for these choices had gone up. By writing that monologue (and yes, I really do write like that), I had come to conclusions that were exciting. And that is how I knew they were right. This was not my first attempt at making these choices, but it was the first time I felt excited by the choices.
So next time you face a decision, try writing about it. And keep writing about it until you're excited for the decision you've made.
Disclaimer: I have ended up with a different version to the above. I'll post about that when the books arrive.












