A Smooth Sea Never Made A Skillful Sailor

It’s doing really well, thank you for asking.

Though it was my shortest relationship, I think my last breakup was the hardest I’ve experienced because he had so much power over me, and he didn’t invest nearly as much as I did.

But the past few months I’ve grown a lot stronger and reinforced my values and now am overflowing with self-love. Though it was hard (and sometimes still is), I’ve learned to let go of anger. I was really hurt but now see that as a consequence of the circumstances of where we were both at in our lives, not a reflection of him simply ‘being an fuckboi’. People are 3-dimensional, and the pain he caused me was a reflection of pain he was hiding from me, I think. He’s just trying get by in life and makes mistakes along the way, the same as me. I simply invested in the wrong person.

Aww, no need to be shy, I don’t bite

L O LLLLLL

Oh gosh…what a loaded question.

Uhhhh Yuna comes to mind, I love her stoicism, maturity, and growth in the face of her bleak circumstances (at least during the main game…before FFX-2 kinda took her character development a few steps back, in my opinion). At the beginning of FFX she was already a selfless person, condemning herself to death for the good of society as a 17 years old. But on top of that, she struggled with feeling love for the first time AND realizing that the same religion that she centered all of her faith and teachings on was corrupt and built off lies while at the end of the day STILL prioritized the good of people…yeah I think she’s a badass.

But also can’t forget Vivi, Garnet, Eiko, and Locke…