degrade me.

each mass she was late. the prodigious length of the cathedral doors creaking at their hinges. slicing through the silence, mid prayer, like a sharp and cold wind on the first of november. however, this was not accidental. because each mass, he would find her eyes and falter in his words, cursing himself as he watched her make her way down the nave. she would hurry to her pew and kneel in prayer, glancing up occasionally to see that his gaze still met hers. it always did. and she knew this, just as she knew his words would falter upon her arrival. and each mass, he would be disturbed by his own thoughts. only being able to picture her kneeling before him.

I want to be covered in bruises, handprints, hickies, scratches

I want to be nothing but a vent for whatever emotions he may have at that moment

I dont care if it hurts

Traditional Husbands also have a huge part to play in a traditional marriage, although it’s not acknowledged by many of traditional individuals. So here’s a small list of the traditional husbands duties :

Make your wife feel protected, whether she’s with you or not.

Do the heavy lifting and fixing jobs around the house for your wife.

Always greet your wife with a kiss

Set an example to your daughter/s what a boyfriend should be like, and your sons how they should treat women.

Always bring gifts back from long work trips to show your loyalty and appreciation.

Make sure to remind your wife that you love her by taking her on dates, saying “i love you” frequently and holding her when she needs it.

Cater to her emotional and physical needs, like she does for you.

Give her days or time off, especially during pregnancy, birthdays and holidays in general.

This relationship is a balance, she looks good for you so make sure you’re hygienic and groomed for her.

Assure her consistently that she and her kids are completely provided for and protected as long as you live.

Support her in everything she does.

Women are a lot more emotional then their male counterparts so approach arguments and conflicts with caution and care.

Make sure you understand her boundaries and what she considers wrong etc, otherwise you’ll run into many arguments ( and obviously abide by these boundaries ).

Never talk badly to others about your wife. Even to your own parents and children.

you can send me threats, disgusting asks or fantasies about me, get off on my trauma, pretty much say anything