SHIPPING SPARK NOTES 2 OF 2: Kal Yeong-Su
Part 1 was the Process. Part 2 is a general list of dos and don'ts
again. "you" is referring to your muse.
Make note on his habits, likes, and dislikes. he will watch you as much as you watch him
Spend a LOT of quality time with him. Make it a genuine pair of your routine
Butt heads with him a little. Knowing where you differ is important. Being assertive is also important. just don't start a fight with him
Sit with him and check on him when he is not feeling well. It will go a long way. Double so if you're aware of his hiccups because it's a good way to gain trust.
Buy things for his birds ( but he has to. Tell you that he has them first. ). these little dudes are his lifelines to sanity. loves them both very much
Get him a little trinket that he can carry with him. Also goes a VERY long way
if he tells you to stay away from ji-hwan, agree to do so. he may not explain why, just that you should ( and it will follow ji-hwan dropping by to say hi to you or interacts with you. it may not be about caio explicitly ) and if he feels like you make light of it, he will get upset.
respect his privacy. pretty self-explanatory and ji-hwan related. he likes quality time but also. needs a minute by himself. listen if he repeats himself
Don't rush him towards a romantic relationship. He'll usually make it clear he's fine with one or that he sees you as his partner ( most verses ) and is rarely wishy washy ( mafia + musician ). implying more before he's ready makes him upset
-> i.e: Caio is demi. you have to have a deep, emotional non-romantic dynamic for even a whiff of romantic feelings on his end and that's not even guaranteed. otherwise, you are just a good friend.
he doesn't like extravagant gifts for himself. He wont reject them but he will not know what to do with it. fine with getting extravagant gifts for others
Threaten to do something about ji-Hwan. He is not ready to let go and he will get very upset if you imply that's something he needs to do... because he is aware of that. He feels like he does not need your muse telling him that and will say as such.
say you don't like pets. very trivial but his birds are his lifeline and he will take this personally
lie to him. also takes this personally. caio may not talk about things but he will never outright lie to you.
make decisions for him. self-explanatory and ji-hwan related. he has a lot of issues concerning his own autonomy so... he would appreciate it if that wasn't taken from him again.
i'm sure he has many more dos and don'ts but these are the main ones. like i said in part 1, caio is kinda difficult. you could follow this guide and caio could still be like "you know what? no." for several reasons... most of them are ji-hwan shaped.
this can also be used as a friend guide, honestly. dude needs more friends than he needs romantic relationships. but i can't tell you what to do.