Genuinely Mean

Also she referred to the character as butch on Twitter(I remember this from over a year ago because it was my tweet she was replying to)

Saying someone isn’t butch because they’re too small is not only an idiotic take but is fully incorrect and honestly cruel.

Even with Melissa saying herself that Erica is butch, that doesn’t discount that short butches exist. Most butches I know are short. Most butches in media are short. I assume that you’re just genuinely ignorant of butchness because that’s the only way your stance against her butchness is size/stature.

Beyond all of that, butch isn’t an aesthetic, it’s a culture. Last I checked no other culture has a height/weight restriction. Erica is protective and loyal and honest. And THAT is what makes her butch. Not her haircut. Not that she flies like she is fingering the console. None of that. It’s that she is chivalrous and loves her people.

When you did it again, maybe not arguing with me directly, but definitely looking to hurt someone's feelings with your "she's going to die" on a post about how much I like a character.

Why do you feel threatened by the fact that I want to see more people who love each other who don't want to fuck each other?

My daughter's a lesbian, and she is the only "dyke" - your word, not mine - whose opinion matters to me.

And if you can't figure out how my family name is pronounced, well, then maybe you might not be so shocked to find out I've been attacked for my ethnicity, as well.

Don't pretend to even be able to imagine the life I've lived, or the struggles I've survived.

Enrique Tarrio is the leader of a White Supremacist group.

Ron DeSantis is running as a White Nationalist.

The person who turned me from another schmuck in the world into a father could never do anything that I wouldn't be proud of. He knows more about himself at 14 than I do at 52.

Or are you one of THOSE "Feminists" who only think gender reassignment is for men who want to be women?

Like when you said you respected mlm/masc4masc relationships more than lesbian relationships, or when you made the leap that "I want these two female characters to date" = "I want them to fuck and hope their relationship is entirely sexual because they're close with each other"

Or when we pointed out that "Hey, all three of the other people commenting on this post are lesbians, at least one of us is poc, and op is asexual" and you continued to harp on the idea that we're bigoted, or right wing, or uninformed on the struggles of queer people or people color

You know absolutely nothing about me; fuck off.

I have not been speaking to - or about - ANYONE OTHER THAN YOU.

And if you think that you are the center of the Lesbian Universe, I want to see your Greek passport and the birth certificate that says your first name is Sappho.

All you do is imagine whatever evils suit your narrative, instead of addressing anything I've actually had to say.

Good luck; with that attitude, I'm sure you'll go far...as far as shift manager at your local coffee shop.

I'm sorry you see my addressing what you have to say as "perceiving evil", maybe you should rethink how you talk to someone less than half your age. Because seriously, Steven. My dad is younger than you.

Is it that you're not used to people questioning your authority? You're used to getting away with claiming "doctored screenshots!" and "not actually addressing my point!" and people then giving up?

Because let me tell you something real quick.

I'm far along in my degree for my age, I'm generally, pretty likeable, and I've spent my entire life having to actually argue my points which are, once again for the class:

• Stop shitting on people for enjoying headcanons, you don't need to state your opinion on everything

• you get really emotional and throw grown man temper tantrums when people disagree with you

• maybe lesbians deserve some rep too because most shows like to kill us or cancel themselves over us no matter how good the ratings are

Did I get angry at her insinuations about me? Goddamn right.

And sorry - I WANT TO SEE PEOPLE WHO HAVE RELATIONSHIPS LIKE MINE IN MAINSTREAM MEDIA, AND I'M SUPER SORRY SOMEONE WHO IS ALREADY OVERREPRESENTED IN MAINSTREAM MEDIA IS SO THREATENED BY SOMEONE OF A DIFFERENT PART OF THE SEXUAL SPECTRUM FEELS THE SAME WAY.

Block me. It's the only way you shut me up. I'm not afraid of being ratioed, doxxed, trolled, spammed or for that matter, SWATTed, given what a shitshow the economy is, right now.

I stand up for what I believe is right.

I stand up for the people I love and care about, and the people they love and care about.

My family and their found family are my family.

There's always going to be someone who wants to make me the monster of their story, and they always forget to include the chapter where they turned me into a monster.

When you did it again, maybe not arguing with me directly, but definitely looking to hurt someone's feelings with your "she's going to die" on a post about how much I like a character.

Why do you feel threatened by the fact that I want to see more people who love each other who don't want to fuck each other?

My daughter's a lesbian, and she is the only "dyke" - your word, not mine - whose opinion matters to me.

And if you can't figure out how my family name is pronounced, well, then maybe you might not be so shocked to find out I've been attacked for my ethnicity, as well.

Don't pretend to even be able to imagine the life I've lived, or the struggles I've survived.

Enrique Tarrio is the leader of a White Supremacist group.

Ron DeSantis is running as a White Nationalist.

This you?

He's been a queer sex symbol since before either of us were born, youngling; I suggest you stop trying to discredit me by trolling my blog and searching for things to snatch out of context to try and catch me in a "GOTCHA!" moment.

You think you're so smart and original...I've seen this dance a thousand times.

The sad thing is, most of the time it's absolute queerphobic bigots who do it.

I'm not the one who called them "Girlfriends."

I'm just the one that commented that every close same-sex relationship is automatically stanned as a sexual relationship, underrepresenting deeply romantic and affectionate relationships between people who have absolutely no sexual interest in each other, whatsoever.

Aziraphale and Crowley come to mind; as do Geordi and Data - both appropriated and stanned as gay icons - again Ace Erasure. I particularly identified with the principles of Good Omens, precisely because it reminded me of one of the most important, loving and long-term relationships I ever had. We never so much as kissed, but we were deeply in love.

So why does that offend you?

Why do you associate every single hint of a lesbian relationship with sex?

Is it because you view us as a porn category? or is it general misogyny? Because OP didn’t mention sex.

Genuinely reevaluate your view of lesbianism before you call us queerphobic. The only time you have ONLY shown respect for queer ships is MLM(or MLNB(present as MLM)). Not to mention that GOmens’ creator has spoken explicitly about sexual intimacy between them.

Why? Because television censors find queer ciswomen less threatening than anyone else.

So yeah, honestly, as sex-averse as I am, I'd rather watch two guys going at it hot and sweaty than another soft-filter scene of the same old lips, tits, navel, crotch kissing lesbian-for-TV bullshit onscreen, and a lot more support and representation for nonbinary sexual orientations.

You just genuinely hate lesbians

When you did it again, maybe not arguing with me directly, but definitely looking to hurt someone's feelings with your "she's going to die" on a post about how much I like a character.

Why do you feel threatened by the fact that I want to see more people who love each other who don't want to fuck each other?

My daughter's a lesbian, and she is the only "dyke" - your word, not mine - whose opinion matters to me.

And if you can't figure out how my family name is pronounced, well, then maybe you might not be so shocked to find out I've been attacked for my ethnicity, as well.

This you?

He's been a queer sex symbol since before either of us were born, youngling; I suggest you stop trying to discredit me by trolling my blog and searching for things to snatch out of context to try and catch me in a "GOTCHA!" moment.

You think you're so smart and original...I've seen this dance a thousand times.

The sad thing is, most of the time it's absolute queerphobic bigots who do it.

I'm not the one who called them "Girlfriends."

I'm just the one that commented that every close same-sex relationship is automatically stanned as a sexual relationship, underrepresenting deeply romantic and affectionate relationships between people who have absolutely no sexual interest in each other, whatsoever.

Aziraphale and Crowley come to mind; as do Geordi and Data - both appropriated and stanned as gay icons - again Ace Erasure. I particularly identified with the principles of Good Omens, precisely because it reminded me of one of the most important, loving and long-term relationships I ever had. We never so much as kissed, but we were deeply in love.

So why does that offend you?

Why do you associate every single hint of a lesbian relationship with sex?

Is it because you view us as a porn category? or is it general misogyny? Because OP didn’t mention sex.

Genuinely reevaluate your view of lesbianism before you call us queerphobic. The only time you have ONLY shown respect for queer ships is MLM(or MLNB(present as MLM)). Not to mention that GOmens’ creator has spoken explicitly about sexual intimacy between them.

Are.

The.

One.

Who.

Called.

Them.

Girlfriends.

Not.

Friends.

Girlfriends.

Every other show for the last 20 years has had lesbians; almost always femmes, to boot.

This you?

He's been a queer sex symbol since before either of us were born, youngling; I suggest you stop trying to discredit me by trolling my blog and searching for things to snatch out of context to try and catch me in a "GOTCHA!" moment.

You think you're so smart and original...I've seen this dance a thousand times.

The sad thing is, most of the time it's absolute queerphobic bigots who do it.

I'm not the one who called them "Girlfriends."

I'm just the one that commented that every close same-sex relationship is automatically stanned as a sexual relationship, underrepresenting deeply romantic and affectionate relationships between people who have absolutely no sexual interest in each other, whatsoever.

Aziraphale and Crowley come to mind; as do Geordi and Data - both appropriated and stanned as gay icons - again Ace Erasure. I particularly identified with the principles of Good Omens, precisely because it reminded me of one of the most important, loving and long-term relationships I ever had. We never so much as kissed, but we were deeply in love.

So why does that offend you?

Why do you associate every single hint of a lesbian relationship with sex?

Is it because you view us as a porn category? or is it general misogyny? Because OP didn’t mention sex.

Genuinely reevaluate your view of lesbianism before you call us queerphobic. The only time you have ONLY shown respect for queer ships is MLM(or MLNB(present as MLM)). Not to mention that GOmens’ creator has spoken explicitly about sexual intimacy between them.

When you did it again, maybe not arguing with me directly, but definitely looking to hurt someone's feelings with your "she's going to die" on a post about how much I like a character.

Why do you feel threatened by the fact that I want to see more people who love each other who don't want to fuck each other?