TLDR; practice RACK, be mindful of the greater community, I don’t need to explain my gender identity or justify my kinks to anybody just as you don’t have to justify them to me. Universal trans family, boots on the ground aiding and supporting each other. Will block if poked or subjected to nastiness.

I will block ageless and blank blogs. This blog is welcome to all queer women, genderqueers, and transmen + transwomen. This is a queer blog, and cishet men will be blocked to maintain safety for my community. I expect to reblog knowingly/unknowingly from men, but I won’t cater to men nor will I allow them to jump from my blog to other lesbians.

I am a transmasculine afab he/him butch lesbian. I am a Marxist who is committed to labor organization and socialist democracy. I am autistic. I will not tolerate gender criticism or any invalidation of my identity. I will not pander to racists, grifters, conservatives, terfs, or anyone else who threatens the safety of myself and my community.

I am attracted to both butches and femmes, but I have more experience writing and engaging with kink from a butch4femme perspective. I am t4t.

This is a hard kink blog for posts I am unwilling to put on my milder kink blog. Neither of those blogs are my main. Do not expect me to name or show pictures of myself, and do not pressure me to do so. I will respect your anonymity and I ask that you respect mine. Pfp illustration by mrzkvaart on Instagram.

THINGS TO EXPECT HERE:

“Dad” and “Mom” as titles and incest play. This includes “kid”/“kiddo”/“little ___” language.

Butch patriarchy (incl. using misogynistic language in scene)

Domesticity + Housewife

Sub training (incl. talking about grooming a sub in incest play)

Priest play

Free use

Dub-con, CNC, and rape play

Anal

Size kink

Bondage

Breeding

References to Knives + Guns + Blood

Leather

Choking + Breath play

Impact play

Threesomes + Group sex

I am a service top dom who has never subbed or bottomed before, but is interested in the fantasy of it. I am cataloguing myself as a switch because both domming & subbing and topping & bottoming will appear on this blog. I will use tags to separate these two things, as well as hard or soft domming.

I will not use feminine terms for myself and I ask that you don’t either. Masculine titles such as “Sir” would be fine when talking to me. I’m “Dad” but don’t message me calling me that without consent. I plan to get top surgery as soon as I have the time and caretaker to do so, so do not use any word but “chest” to refer to mine. I am not skinny, I grew up on a farm. I will use the words “dick” and “cock” to refer to my strap, packer, and clit. I am considering going on T, but I have no obligation to share that kind of info.

HARD LIMITS

Raceplay, hotwives/cucking, feederism, piss/scat/vomit/bodily fluids, torture, latex, gore, anything involving minors/animals/amab men. If you reblog, comment, or involve these in my posts, I will block you.

While I’ve played a lot of scenes over text + the phone, I am comparatively inexperienced with them in my actual sex life. As I become more familiar with them, please be considerate of the boundaries I communicate. I grew up in an extremely devout individualistic religious community, so I am not always comfortable with some aspects of Christianity used in a kink scenario. Again, please respect those boundaries as they are communicated.

I will try to be considerate about tagging kinks so they can be caught in filters, but please understand that if you are an adult choosing to engage with this blog, I am not responsible for what you see and how you respond. Sending me anon hate or insulting me is pathetic and nonconducive, and it will be deleted instead of responded to.