Fuckboi is a fucking horrible nazi term.
A lock that opens with any key is disgusting but a key that opens any lock is a master.
Fuckboi is just the male version of this.
I swear there are so many women that just want the ability to be as awful as the men they hate. (Obligatory note: there are soooooo so many women an gender non conforming folks who have a compassionate head on their shoulders and do not think this way.)
People don't owe you sex. They don't owe you intimacy. They don't owe you the truth. They don't owe you commitment.
That's a very hyperreligious/fascist viewpoint, that you get to dictate a bunch of rules that other people don't agree to and if they violate your expectations they are scum.
It fucking sucks when people betray you or are not who they say they are.
Sometimes people are doing that. Sometimes people are also just getting to know you and during that process you do something that makes them not like you or potentially not feel safe around you. It doesn't really matter who is right. It's probably better that you don't stick together if only one person is into it.
Do you really want someone who has already decided they don't like you to just change their mind and marry you forever?
If your expectations around someone are based in a bunch of rules you have in your head about people and a set of relationship milestones you're trying to hit instead of actually being present with that person and learning about them, you're pretty much guaranteeing they will disappoint you.
It's just more slutshaming, dehumanizing shit that empowers the men to slutshame you back.
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