Since I’ve seen a few blogs take a stance on consent and the whole „women are inferior“-thing I wanted to give my two cents here too.
1. Consent
Remember that consent is ALWAYS not only important but necessary. If it’s not mutual you or your partner is literally committing a crime. Don’t get me wrong it’s pretty nice to take my little princess whenever I want and disregard her saying no but I can only do that because we established a safeword. This gives her safety and it also makes it easier for me to know when it’s just too much. So if you enjoy this kind of stuff please make sure you have a safeword so you can live out all your fantasies without being abused or abusing someone and ending up in prison.
2. „women are inferior“
This is just bullshit and imo very lazy and unappealing. It all comes down to character and personally I want my girl to submit to me because I’m superior and not because there is a stereotype that my gender is supposed to be stronger. For me it’s the same as when you put in hard work to be good at something and then someone tells you „oh your just talented“. It diminishes what you have achieved. So don’t fall into that trap. And if you still enjoy that fantasy that’s fine, I won’t kinkshame you, but remember it is a FANTASY and has nothing to do with real life. If you live like that in real life it doesn’t make you superior or better, you are just a misogynistic asshole.
Kinda sad this stuff has to be said, but after a few years of experience with this kind of stuff I felt like this needs to be said to help newer doms and subs figure out if their relationships are toxic. If you are a dom never forget that it comes with great responsibility and if you wanna be in charge you need to earn it every day.
Hope this helps some ppl to live out their kinks in a more healthy way and enables them to fall deeper into the rabbit hole we are all here for 😁
