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"The Lost Daughter," written and directed by female filmmaker Maggie Gyllenhaal and starring Olivia Coleman, follows Leda Caruso, a college professor who meets another woman named Nina, a young mother, while on vacation in Greece. In this film, Leda becomes increasingly fascinated with Nina, having seen herself in her, as she remembers when she was a young mother (Gyllenhaal, 2021). The neglect she often felt towards her family, along with her desire for success in her field of work and independence/escapism, is something she indulged in those years, causing her to leave her family in search of happiness. These years were seemingly very traumatic for Leda, who is often shaken up by these intrusive memories of early motherhood. As Leda attempts to confront Nina by telling her that she was the person who stole Elena, Nina's daughter, doll, Nina reacts by stabbing her and storming out in anger, and this leads Leda to leave the estate, which follows in a near-fatal car crash, leading her to abruptly call her daughters, Bianca and Martha, who exhibit their concern for her as they haven't heard from her in a while. The intersectionality between gender expectations, the spectator's experience, which involves whom the spectator is 'meant to be,' and whom the patriarchal nature of Hollywood is trying to 'appease,' are both challenged in Gyllenhaal's interpretive film "The Lost Daughter." However, diversity and certain cultural tropes could have been improved upon within this film.Â
Before praising this film, it's essential to note that it didn't quite do justice to its location and culture of Greece. For instance, in the film, Nina is an American citizen with Italian heritage, with her entire family also being primarily Italian. Although this is a large part of her family's identity within the novel, and the Greek/Italian language should be a large aspect of the film, it is essentially cast aside as the film takes a Eurocentric lens with the attempt to 'Americanize' a script filmed in a foreign country (Stam & Shohat). This is primarily due to the fact that the filmmakers are filming this film in America, with the attempt to 'Americanize' it so that it can fit into the mainstream media, and therefore decided to primarily utilize the English language instead of Greek to appease an American audience (Stam & Shohat). In terms of the inclusion of people of Greek and/or Italian descent, from what I was able to find, most of the primary filmmakers weren't of this descent (Maggie Gyllenhall, Imdb), a factor that would've possibly legitimized the Greek and Italian experience, which would have made this film more accurate to Greek culture. Per Shohat and Stam's scholarly article "Stereotype, Realism, and the Struggle over Representation'' noted that the linguistics of domination is English and how this has affected foreign films (Stam & Shohat), making them less authentic to the place they're being filmed, and this relates to Gyllenhall's film as speaking English isn't considered an aspect of Greek culture, with the people of Greece mainly saying a variety of Mediterranean languages, and the primary lingua franca of Greece being Greek (Verlag, 2002). Although Greek language was included in small bits of the film, it would have been more authentic to Greek culture to see the Greek language more integrated into the overall film.
Additionally, Elena Ferrante's novel "The Lost Daughter" was initially written in Italian. This Neapolitan culture could have been more evident in the film, as it was only realized upon further research that Nina's family was supposed to be Italian in the film. Initially, on my part, there needed to be clarity as to where this film was supposed to be set, which was due to a limited inclusion of Greek culture. Additionally, Leda and Nina in the book were of the same heritage (The Lost Daughter, Elena Ferrante). In contrast, the film made Leda English, which was a decision that didn't make sense to the overall film, and the message of the film was this supposed mirror image of Leda that she saw in Nina, and their shared culture in the novel was a driving force in this (The Lost Daughter, Elena Ferrante).Â
In my opinion, where this film succeeded was in the way it challenged traditional and dominant Hollywood gender roles. These roles generally stereotype the father figure as this independent soul with much allotted time to work on himself and his work. In non-scholarly sources that discuss and rate the most effective father figures, more often than not, these fathers have jobs (Dad La Soul), showcasing the difference between the stereotypes around fatherhood and motherhood, this supposed narrative within Hollywood filmmaking, which is that only the father figure is capable of being distant or even leaving. In contrast, the female is bound to her children. E. Ann Kaplan's "Is The Gaze Male" discusses the trials and tribulations of motherhood and the repression of 'mothering' faced by mothers and how this is attributed to the silencing of a mother's own individualized identity. Within this film, a young Leda feels confined to her children, as her husband is often away for work, and although she loves them deeply, she desperately seeks escapism and a chance to succeed in her field of work. In a sense, this film offers another perspective of a woman who is remorseful of her decision to have children, as Leda longs for her independence before her children and is experiencing, to some degree, postpartum depression, which requires her to leave behind her family in search of herself.
As argued by Kaplan, "Women are faced with the impossible dilemma: to remain in blissful unity with the child in the imaginary, or to enter the symbolic in which mothering is repressed, cannot be 'spoken,' cannot represent a position of power. Here, the only resistance is silence" (Kaplan, 218). It is seen throughout the film that although Leda tries to be an excellent mother to her children as she feels is her duty, what she seeks is independence; she faces a cognitive dissonance in this as, in reality, she can't have both, which Kaplan argues, as the stereotype surrounding 'motherhood' is the thought of being completely selfless, which takes away from one's ability to focus on their job or themselves, so ultimately Leda decides she has to leave to seek this independence and success in her career. Leda sees herself mirrored in the character of Nina. However, even though there are substantial differences in the womanâs background; there is a sense of connection to a similar situation, with Nina seemingly having difficulty keeping up with her eccentric daughter Elena and becoming easily irritable as her husband is often gone for work, so the responsibility of Elena lands on her. This shared experience of motherhood makes Leda infatuated with Nina, as she feels as though Nina, along with herself, also doesn't fit within society's expectations of what being a mother and motherhood is. These characters both challenge the stereotypical role of the utterly selfless mother bound to her children. This helps this film offer a new perspective on gender roles in families in society, separate from the one typically thought of in patriarchal culture (Kaplan).
Another intriguing aspect of the film is the framing of Nina as this desirable being, in that she doesn't get many speaking roles, and most of her actions are to be perceived by not only Leda but also by the spectators of the film as desirable or even at times possibly sexual. Kaplan mentions this idea of the male gaze, a gaze which depicts women as sexual beings for the pleasure of the heterosexual male spectators of film (The New Yorker). Still, Kaplan questions whether this gaze is always necessarily male, asking whether it would be possible for this gaze to be female. This film proves true to Kaplan's question, as Leda is the person watching Nina. Kaplan goes on to say that; "In patriarchal structures, thus, woman is located as other (enigma, mystery), and is thereby viewed as outside (male) language" (Kaplan, 209). Leda views Nina as this mystery, which further others her, her gaze casting her almost as an outsider, and this infatuation causes the framing of Nina as this desirable âbeingâ, challenging traditional Hollywood roles that only men can hold this gaze and that this gaze can in fact be from a female perspective.Â
Overall, The Lost Daughter is a perfect film that delves into the tribulations of 'motherhood' and challenges gender stereotypes and tropes in Hollywood. However, this film misses the mark when considering its take on culture and ethnicity and the lack of inclusion of Greek culture. The addition of people from Europe, particularly people of Greek or Italian descent, in this filmmaking process, could have helped to improve the film's take on cultural tropes, as the addition of a female director and writer made this film intriguing with its unique approach to motherhood and gender expectations within motherhood.
Citations:Â
Ferrante, Elena, and Ann Goldstein. The lost daughter. New York, NY: Europa Editions, 2021.Â
Greydanus, Steven D. âFatherhood and Hollywood: Dads in the Movies: Decent Films - SDG Reviews.â Decent Films. Accessed December 11, 2023. https://decentfilms.com/articles/fatherhood.
IMDb. âMaggie Gyllenhaal - Biography.â IMDb. Accessed December 11, 2023. https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0350454/bio/.Â
Jackson, Lauren Michele. âThe Invention of âthe Male Gaze.ââ The New Yorker, July 14, 2023. https://www.newyorker.com/books/second-read/the-invention-of-the-male-gaze.Â
Kaplan, E. Ann âIs the Gaze Male.â The Film Theory Reader. Debates and Arguments.Â
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Shohat, Ella and Stam, Robert âStereotype, Realism and the Struggle Over Representationâ Unthinking Eurocentrism. Multiculturalism and the media.Â
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