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The things in pink is usually what im referring to if i tell u to click on this link!

Click if youre from discord - Goes over concerns and questions commonly from discord (and also b4 you interact)

“Why did you lash out at me?” - This is for anyone I bicker with (if u have a issue with something u probably should read this, also “before you interact”) (WIP)

Why you shouldnt report this blog (let me know instead!) - If you dont like something I posted, then let me know, I can edit or delete instead. Reporting causes harm and is unecessary.

Rules of thumb - Things to consider when interacting with me. (Very general) <<<

Before you interact / Things to be cautious of when talking with me - Goes over basic info that might make it difficult to interact with me / Or warnings about me <<< plz click if u were confused / offended by my behaviour

Boundaries of discussion / jokes - Things I probably dont want to hear or see about

“What does your status mean?”

The percentage represents my mental state (0% is bad, and 100% is good)

I put the date and time whenever i update my status. If its been over 2 hours since the last update, consider it outdated. I have severe moodswings throughout the day. This helps me keep track and also tell other ahead of time.

The acronym is my interaction status:

Stint- safe to interact (in a good headspace to mask and talk and be polite)

IWC - intercat with cautions ( mildly triggered or stressed out , may come across as blunt , closed off or distant)

IWEC- interact with extreme caution

(unable to not lash out , or unable to think rationally and speaks and action are based off of emotions and what the thoughts are telling me, prome to suicidality and self injury)

DNI- do not interact

(extremely rare, means i am having a severe episode and very likely to trigger or harm you unintentionally, very prome to sui attempts or frequent relapses)

DNIUI , Do not interact unless I interact first. Im having a shutdown and probably isolating myself for a good reason.

Other stuff

Anything in parentheses is extra info.

Weight jokes / fat jokes

trans/disorder jokes (making fun of neurodiversity , or pronouns or whatever)

Suicide or self harm jokes

^^^images or art depicting them, scars or whatnot (unless ur a specific person ive given permission to)

Why you should interact gently!

Im extremely easily triggered (into self harm , and psychosis episodes and starvation episodes

I have symptoms of delusions and an ED/body dysmorphia

-I have extremely severe RSD (Rejection sensitive dysphoria)

I have symptoms of moral ocd / mental ocd, or more like moral obssesions. Its best not to add moral connotations to any of ur words

About general conversation:

-You will not understand alot of the things i say. I am neurodivergent and take the internet as a place to unmask

I am an literal thinker, (autistic) , I might not understand metaphors and WILL take emotional emotionally charged statements in a literal sense, or “absolutes” (its best to be specific in what youre talking about when talking to me, especially when it comes to certain jokes

We have dyslexithymia and alexithymia , I have a hard time expressing my emotions appropriately,

About “arguments” “discourse” and sensitive conversations

-I have a hard time understanding subjective experiences and emotions I might struggle to understand why youre upset at something I do.

-I also have intense mood swings (I have a status if youve come from discord letting you know whether its safe to speak with me)

What is “respectful” is social constructs that i (severely) struggle with in that aspect, If i say something offensive / bigoted it is ALWAYS UNINTENTIONAL

About dms and friendships!

-Extremely forgetful, (adhd and dissociation) we might ghost you, ghosting people is never intentional but it happens for us

“If you wouldnt expect to kid to understand / be able to emotionally handle it (12-13) then you probably shouldnt say it.

Always be careful with what you say. (Be direct and gentle with wording)