PnP+Gay

Reblog: If your high either from, smoking meth , slamming, booty bumps or snorting lines.. and

Your Ad or Profile

•Try to say what you do like instead of what you don’t like, try saying “I prefer men under 30…” instead of “NO OLDER GUYS”. •Try to stay away from saying “disease free”, “bug free” or “clean” or “clear of STDs” if you are HIV negative, maybe say “negative for HIV and STDs” that way it’s less offensive. •Some people suggest not being too nit picky about your tastes. If you are narrow with your hookup criteria, you may get fewer responses. Instead of writing a very specific post like “Looking for tall muscular red head with an amazing ass and a 9inch cock who loves to pop balloons with his feet” try, “Seeking fit guys who take care of their bodies, who are open for experimentation and have a bigger than average dick”. •Have your “preferred” list and then your“required” list, that way you let others know what you’re open to and what would be a deal breaker.

•READ his post THOROUGHLY. •Gently ask how recent the photos are •Make sure to know what kind of party situation you’re getting into; is it a group or solo event? •Ask what sexual practices they’re into and what they’re looking for. •Ask how long/how many days the guy has been partying for so that you are as close to being on the same page as possible. •Asking how much time they have available to play is definitely a good idea, are you looking for a quickie or a 4 hour session?

•Check if they have a boyfriend or not. If they live together, how much time do they have before the bf comes home? Not a good surprise most of the time… •Have the conversation about HIV/STDs before hooking up. •Discuss barebacking or condom use before as well… that way everybody knows what they are getting into. •Ask them to bring their favorite porn… that way you get an idea of what that person may like sexually. •Another good thing to ask is what other drugs are in the picture and how he likes to use his crystal (ie. Smoke, snort, slam) Some guys like to hook up with people who party the same way with the same drugs so that their headspaces are similar. •Have a phone conversation before meeting up, a good indicator of where their headspace is at. •Asking if he would like you to bring over water, Gatorade, food, lube or condoms is always a good idea (latex or non-latex? – not everyone’s hole or dick likes latex). Better to not be stuck somewhere without the things that you may need and want to party safer.

•Make sure you have sun- glasses for when you leave someone’s place. •Stock up, if you can, on cheap sunglasses for people who may need them when leaving – you will be remembered for your compassion and care. •Ask when the last time he or the group ate, perhaps you could bring some snacks for him or the guys in the group. Ensure or fruit are quick, healthy and easy to swallow and digest, especially if your stomach feels like it is the size of a pea. •If you’re allergic to pets – ask if they have pets.

1. Allow and accept the different feelings you experience – knowing these will change throughout the day.

2. Don’t judge yourself for having negative feelings.

3. Don’t believe every thought that pops into your head. Some of these are true, but many will be false.

4. Slow down and take life at a manageable pace.

5. Stay in the present; do one thing at a time.

6. Let go of the need to control everything.

7. Practise being curious; notice little things.

8. Use your 5 senses to become more aware of what is happening all around you in the world.

9. Nourish and take care of your body and mind.

Any fantasy, fetish or taboo.