BlankAurora

The antici……………pation 👄

2022. One documented piece of the pattern. Same event. Same silence. Coming up again in two weeks.

Let’s do this one more time for the people who showed up loud but didn’t bother to learn anything:

I did not start drama. I did not want any of this.

2022 wasn’t isolated. Different incidents. Same pattern. Same people.

Back in 2022, I had a boundary violation at the event by one of the people on staff. I reported it. I have the emails. I got the standard polished response. Nothing meaningful changed.

What happened later was separate, but followed the same pattern: pushed boundaries, pressure, harm, excuses, silence, protection.

I still kept quiet. Not because nothing happened. Not because I had no proof. But because I did not want my personal life dragged into a public circus. What forced my hand was not me deciding to “come forward.” It was me trying to help someone else dealing with the same behavior from the same person.

They came to me. They asked for help.

Then, out of fear, they turned around, changed what actually happened, and passed along an altered version that ended up being shared publicly.

At that point, I no longer had the option of staying quiet, even though I still wanted to.

Then I defended myself. And I was publicly accused of sexual assault. A false accusation. Left up. Repeatedly. Refused to be taken down.

That is what pushed this into court.

So let’s be clear: I didn’t go looking for a public fight. I was forced into one, and then punished for defending myself.

Meanwhile, the loudest people coming at me?

Never asked me a single question. Never heard my side. Never wanted facts. They just piled on. That’s not accountability. That’s a mob.

And yes, the event from 2022 is happening again in two weeks.

I am not allowed to attend. Other people connected to this situation are. Think about what that says.

This community loves to preach consent, safety, accountability…until it’s someone popular. Someone protected. Someone they don’t want to hold accountable.

Then the rules bend. The behavior gets minimized. And the person speaking up becomes the problem.

I have evidence. A lot of it. More than what’s been shown publicly. There are legal reasons I’m not posting everything, but don’t confuse restraint with a lack of proof.

This is not one misunderstanding. This is not one isolated situation. This is a pattern. Selective enforcement.Protected behavior. Silenced people.

If you weren’t there, didn’t ask, and don’t know the facts, you don’t get to rewrite what happened.

You chose noise over facts. I chose evidence over silence. We are not the same.

Safety, respect of boundaries, accountability - none of that starts under the rug. And this "rules for thee but not for me" attitude out of the staff for these events will not make anything better, only much much worse.

And Harmony's first incident being in 2022 leads me to wonder:

How many other incidents are there that haven't come out because the harmed parties have been shamed, or even threatened, into silence?

And no, this didn’t magically end.

Court didn’t stop them — it just changed their strategy.

Some people don’t learn, they adapt. Lies just moved out of the spotlight and into the background.

Pay attention to patterns, not performances.

7 months later. Still a foot model with a scarred foot. Still no apology, still a predator, still a 💯 percent dick.

Some labels aren’t accusations… they’re admissions.

When behavior gets defended instead of questioned, that tells you everything.

Every community has its gatekeepers.

Safety and appropriate care are more important than whatever attractive trait you see in a potential play person. And we need to remember that.

It’s too embarrassing??? Where’s that attitude now~?

It’s too embarrassing??? Where’s that attitude now~?

All of the this.

So much of the this that there is no room for the that or the those.