guys i really don’t know what’s going on with my tumblr but when i search for my account on google, it doesn’t even come up and it’s stressing me out because i also can’t even message because the tab is completely gone. please tell me if you can see this and if there’s any way to fix it because suddenly, my account died and i don’t understand what’s going on. i can’t even comment. did i do something wrong? i really don’t know. please help…

edit: I’ve come to the conclusion that i may be shadowbanned but idk for sure.

He should be treasured. He should be held in the highest esteem and respect.

Give him attention. Listen to him when he speaks. Listen just as closely when he is silent.

Ask him what he needs from you. What you can do for him.

Give him your time, your presence, your courtesy.

If he has never given any reason for you to doubt him, then don’t LOOK for things to doubt.

Be his pleasure. Don’t try to cause him pain.

Don’t test him, to see if he is “just like all the others”. Had an ex that hurt you? Yeah, we all have. He probably has too. Don’t treat him like its the fault of all men.

Treat him like a king.

Put effort into him.

Show him you’re worthy of how he treats you.

Give him a damned break.

Be at His side.

Give him reason to smile. To laugh. To feel good.

Take care of him.

If he’s a good man, and you want to be with him, be a good woman.