The Hand That Feeds

⟶ I’m 24 years old. A triple Capricorn and a Capricorn Venus for those of you who enjoy astrology.

⟶ Bisexual, Polyamorous, and also Two-Spirit. I exclusively use He/Him pronouns.

⟶ Mvskoke & Irish. If you are speaking about me specifically, do not refer to me as just Native American, American Indian, Indian, or other equivalents. I am Mvskoke.

⟶ Top-Leaning Dominant who’s an experimentalist at heart. I’ve a little over half a decade in the kink community as an educator, mentor, handler, and tamer.

⟶ On the rare occasions I enjoy submission, it consists of devotional acts. Body worship, financial domination, acts of service, etc. It is very limited and, again, rare.

⟶ While Lycan is perfectly acceptable to use in reference to me, the range of my comfort extends to Mr, Mister, or Sir with those I do not know. Anything else is reserved for play partners and those I have a dynamic with.

⟶ Outside of kink I love cinematography and audio. Occasionally these do bleed into my non-vanilla lifestyle and/or I just enjoy talking about it, so you may see posts regarding it every now and then.

What’s My Deal?

I take up a lot of roles in a lot of areas. A hunter at primal play events, a handler for pets from pups to ponies, a trainer for slave subs, and plenty more. Like I mentioned earlier, I’m an experimentalist at heart, so who’s really surprised there? I take a lot of pride in my ability maintaining a safe (as safe as consented to, anyhow) and comfortable scene with play partners.

BDSM and the kink community did wonders for my mental health and is one of the reasons I decided to mentor and take mentees/students. It has been my relaxation and my peace of mind, something that was finally able to rationalize my mind for me, and every day I improve both as a dominant and as a regulated individual. I am passionate about the positive effects kink has on the brain and a person’s nervous system, how sensuality and intimacy can be as much of an art as well as a sexual act, and how “provocative” acts and fashion tie into politics and resistance. I live the lifestyle 24/7 and with that I am constantly furthering my own practices as a dominant (This may or may not also be the reason why Secretary is one of my favorite films).

In 2024 I started planning my own dungeon and in early 2026, I finally made it a reality. It’s a very big step and one I’m over the moon for. Complete with a kennel, a suspension frame, a static/spinning dance pole, an armoire full of display pieces and toys, and more furniture suited for things ranging between interrogation play all the way to medical play. Im hoping to expand my habits to the online now instead of just the offline, so here I am.

Trigger Warnings ↴

I am a blog that posts about hard kinks. Some of these kinks involve faux non-consent scenarios and loss of coherence including but not limited to intoxication play, consensual non-consent, somnophilia, abduction, fear play, “forced” breeding/impregnation/pregnancy, pregnancy in general, gun/knife play, etc. I enjoy a lot of dark kinks and dark fantasy scenarios and there will be plenty to find here seeing that most of this blog is drabbles and writing snippets.