CHARLOTTE

Call me Charlotte with Shi/Hir pronouns! I am bodily 18 years old, Plural, Wasian Indigenous && Intersex. This blog is dedicated to talking about intersex issues && my experiences! My ask box is always open for polite questions, sharing your own experiences (Please give appropriate CWs if needed), or just saying hi! ( ^ ^ ) This blog has no DNI aside from intersexists or those who use TMA/TME as terms. Thank you! CREDITS: Icon, Flag in divider, Username

1) I am transfem. While I am aware that transfems can be transmisogynistic, I am confused at what this is directed at. I have not demeaned anyone for being transfem...? 2) This is definitely about my TMA/TME post, actually. Sorry for being an intersex transfem who thinks the labels are stupid? You may think I'm TME by your own standards, but in the true sense of the term, I am TMA when it comes to the transmisogyny I have experienced over the course of my entire life. 3) This is the only 'hate' I will answer. The rest will be deleted! If you want to have a polite discussion about your own opinion regarding TMA/TME as terms, you can send a polite ask about it. I encourage sharing of opinions and stances as it helps encourage healthy discussions, however being rude is simply a waste of your own time that could be spent instead doing something you enjoy. TL;DR: I am transfem & have not expressed hate towards others for their transfemininity, I am TMA in the true sense of the term & I encourage healthy and polite sharing of opinions/stances about such a thing. Thanks.

Hey you, intersex person reading this! You are amazing. I am so glad that you are reading this. I am very proud of you regardless of how you may be feeling today, how your life may be going lately, or anything else. I wish you a happy future full of being unapologetically yourself!

I hate when people still insist that you MUST be either "TME" or "TMA". I am regarded as "TME" by many in my own community based on my own physical appearance and general mannerisms (somehow). However, 99% of the bullying, harassment & general tormenting I have dealt with over the years would make me "TMA" entirely. But of course, the people that insist that you must be either or else, will never care about my experiences or feelings. These same people will ignore the experiences of intersex individuals, even if the insister is intersex as well. I am transfeminine, I am "TMA", but just because I don't have the same experiences as other transfems, I will not be seen as "valid" or whatever. It's so irritating. Stop inventing a new binary. Stop asking if someone is AMAB/AFAB, TME/TMA. It's the same as asking what's in their pants in most regards, and frankly it's an invasion of privacy. By the way. Any rude responses to this post will be deleted and/or blocked. If you disagree, be polite in your reply/reblog. I am not going to change my view on this simply because it has been crafted over time by my own experiences. Thank you for reading.

I'm definitely not the first one to say this on this site, but I really think that people need to understand the following when it comes to people with PCOS: It is recognized as intersex by a lot of people, including InterACT. But if you or someone else that has PCOS don't want to call yourself/themself intersex, that's completely fine! Do whatever you're most comfortable with. I personally refer to myself as intersex for multiple reasons, including the bullying I faced while I was in school that was mostly due to my intersex traits caused by my PCOS. It's like, how some of my friends don't call themselves trans even though they technically are in the eyes of most, y'know? Label yourself however you want, however makes you comfortable. Your comfort matters above all, honestly. Lots of love ♡♡♡ Also, this can go for any intersex variation, honestly! Not just PCOS. It's important that you prioritize your health(care) && comfort above all else.