bisou

this is a nsfw side blog, i most likely interact with you via my main blog (the name is very similar)

i try to keep this blog somewhat aesthetic and vibey (for my tastes) and not reblog the more hardcore graphic stuff. mostly because i didn't want to get flagged years ago and the tone has stuck

that isn't to say im not into the more hardcore kinky stuff, i very much am

i dont post much publicly about myself so i dont bother with tags

second to last point (maybe): i find a lot the dom / daddy dom things i see on tumblr extremely cringe and a lot of it is just misogyny masked as kink (im talking about those type of bw blogs that just post about how they basically want to abuse womxn with no disclaimers). so if you are one of those blogs, please stay away. some of these blogs are warping peoples idea of what a healthy sex life looks like into something genuinely abusive

finally if you have made it this far, thank you, you deserve nothing but kindness in your life. lets keep tumblr a little freaky isolated corner of the modern internet

i am very happy to chat about anything and everything, please feel free to say hi