i'm done trying to be anything that i don't want to be! i live my life for myself and no one else!

remember this blog? i do. i remember the self-pitying and victim-mentality kind of community i was such a part of. i'm happy now. remember when i didn't like myself enough to fight for what i really want? i do. i've lost 72 lbs, i am dating my soulmate, i'm moving across the country in 6 months. and i'm happy now. i know this likely won't be read by many, but i needed this closure. i am in control of my own life, and that is not something i ever thought before. and i'm happy.

becoming conservative has made me: lose weight, grow my hair out, be less sad all the time, want to get married and start a family, use this awful site less

also im not tagging my religion stuff any more! Deal™ With™ It™