BigMochaBelly

me a year ago vs me now :3

                                       🧁Just a fit blonde who wants to get fat 🧁

Starting: 120lb       Goal Weight: 250+

My story:

        I've been into this kink for as long as I can remember but was too young to know it. Eventually as I got older I learned that the thought of gaining weight made me extremely horny. I constantly thought about what it would be like to be bigger and softer. However, the pressure of society kept me from actively gaining.

                 For the past few years I was left using my imagination and reading weight gain stories. Until that is I accidentally gained some weight.  It was only 10lbs but it was enough to leave me wanting more. So I made an account on a site to connect with like minded people. I kept telling myself "Only one more week"...of stuffing my face and gaining.  Eventually it had been a month and I had gained another 10lbs and I had become completely addicted to the lifestyle that I always yearned to have.  Friends that I had made in this kink had suggested I create content which has only made me gain faster and eat more. Leading me to completely give in and indulge in my sexual fantasies.

               I decided it didn't really matter what society thought in fact I found that in the moment I was embarrassed but later when I was alone It made me hornier than anything else. I had initially said that I only wanted to gain to 180 which quickly switch to 200 than 250 and im now considering 300.

                             I hope that you enjoy following me on my weight gain journey 💕

Before:

       I used to go to yoga constantly which is why I had defined abs. I would go once to twice a day prioritizing it as well as healthy eating. Before I started gaining I actually hadn't ate Mcdonald's in 7 years. I tried to stay at 120lbs by eating around 1500 calories a day which I have nearly tripled.

                                                                                           ✨My Favorites✨

Hobbies: Reading, Baking, Scrap booking, writing, Nintendo switch 📚

Fast Food: Chick-fil-a🐥

Candy: Chocolate, freeze dried skittles🍫

Game: Animal Crossing,  Mario Kart 🐾🏎️

Book: A Court Of Thorns and Roses 🌹

Color: Pink 🐷

Movie: Romeo + Juliet (Leonardo Dicaprio)📺

Music Genre: Pop punk 🎸

Recent events in the feedism community have made me recognise the need for a database compiling all useful resources on practicing this feedism ethically and safely. So I’m making one.

If you are new to feedism or been in the community for a long time, I demand you read this.

Concerning Safety:

- The wonderful @feederwithbighands has some words for you about cybersecurity…

https://feederwithbighands.tumblr.com/post/641980567506845697/oh-and-use-long-passwords-i-dont-give-a-fuck-if

- This guy’s fairly new, but we now have our own superhero! @feedismbatman will help you call out toxic individuals whilst remaining anonymous:

https://feedismbatman.tumblr.com/

Concerning morality:

- As a website, https://fantasyfeeder.com has a lot of problems, and, as probably the first dedicated online feedist community out there, are probably in some small part for fostering the community’s toxic culture. However, their YouTube channel has this really great video on how to be an ethical feedist and not ruin people’s lives. Please watch this, especially if you’re new to feedism:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FBRrgBPMAB4

- Is it egotistical of me to cite myself? Probably, but over 200 reblogs can’t be wrong. This post of mine absolutely blew up back in November and is still doing the rounds, and as my most popular post i guess it’s inadvertedly made me kind of an authority on ethical feedism, so check it out:

https://justanotherworthlessweirdo.tumblr.com/post/632513996135776256/why-the-community-is-toxic-this-post-is-gonna-get

- There are a lot of misconceptions about feedism, even within the community itself. This article by Marie Southard Ospina on https://everydayfeminism.com/ helps clarify some of those misconceptions, and shows how you can be a kinder and more ethical feedist. Particularly recommend this one to feeders.

https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/10/assumptions-about-fat-fetishism/

- On similar lines, here’s Ospina again, discussing the relationship of feedism to the fat acceptance movement. A lot of fat activists hate us, in part due to some of the misconceptions Ospina listed above and in part because our community is so full of incels, but if you’re a feedist, you should be for fat acceptance.

https://saltyworld.net/why-i-stand-by-the-fat-fetish-community/

- If you’re into podcasts, Wood’s Weird Wellness is one I highly recommend, featuring engaging discussion of the ethics and politics of feedism with some of the kink’s most well-known creators. Really great stuff.

https://open.spotify.com/show/10RtF0mlNdkEzZTQ7Rq18C

- A generalised discussion on how NOT to be a feedist.

https://justanotherworthlessweirdo.tumblr.com/post/625914600908521472/toxic-people-in-the-feederism-community

Final Thoughts (please read)

Please, please, please, SUGGEST RESOURCES I MAY HAVE MISSED. I’ll keep updating this post with them. In particular, it would be nice to have some useful introduction to fat politics, preferably an article: I remember m-ary had some good links for that but of course those links aren’t still active, which is partly why a post like this needs to exist. More resources on safety in feedism would also be useful, though I’d assume there aren’t too many. Finally, not to beg for likes like some dumb influencer, but for god’s sake if you’re in this community,

REBLOG THIS POST!!!!!

on Instagram:

fatgirlow

comfyfattravels

mynameisjessamyn

themilitantbaker

sonyareneetaylor

thebodyisnotanapology

yrfatfriend

Podcasts and books:

The body is not an apology by Sonya Renee Taylor

Fearing the Black Body by Sabrina Strings

Hunger by Roxanne Gay

The Life Thief by Christy Harrison

Food Psych is an amazing resource, as Christy Harrison interviews so many different people that all have something important to offer to the discussion.