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i cannot take seriously posts that bring up tme attempts to pressure transmisogynized people into identifying a certain way that bring up claims of nb identity being more palatable but not of binary identity being more palatable at this point. like ok yeah intercommunity bs and fandom bs deserve their discussion etc but can we be fucking serious. yes its annoying how many people go "the transfem headcanon is nice but what about genderfluid (popular transfem character.)" yes it sucks how many peoples favorite transfem musician is gerard way in a tone indicating its because he/they public pronouns mean its easy to just see them as a quirky man. yes its horrible your shitty ex wanted you to try being a femme demiboy instead. thats all bad. can you talk about it without implicitly denying the far wider scale to the point of being structurally imposed pressure to be a 100% feminine (and ideally straight) normal binary woman that means sometimes you have to lie that you are or cant get hormones without diy. sometimes youll have to say this lie even to get diy if your local resources are handled by trans people who follow this mindset and its too costly get shit imported. sometimes you cant get surgeries in an order of choosing and will have to get ones you dont want to get ones you do. sometimes the surgeries you want actively will not be available from the only surgeons in your area that people reccomend. sometimes getting certain surgeries is the only way to stop being legally classed as a man. every other self proclaimed cis/tme trans ally and plenty of other trans women too will defend transfems on the basis of hormones and surgery in ways that make it clear anyone with a lack of desire for these is the invasive predatory man that all the transmisogynists are worried about.

“transandrophobia affected/exempt” is like the kind of cartoonish buffoonery i’d make up in a joke post as a hyperbolic example of misogynists stealing the intellectual labor of women rather than expend thought and effort on doing their own analyses and yet it’s real

if you’re a certain level of tall as a trans woman people will start acting like they genuinely believe it’s ok to treat you like transmisogynistic futa porn is real life and you’re the futa

sometimes i get a glimpse of the scale of the fucking. ISFF hateposting cottage industry and it's all deeply connected to a bunch of kiwifarmers and none of them seem to notice how deranged it is to do all of this. just post about a trans woman 24/7 set up multiple blogs to screenshot and track down everything on her. i wish you all a very happy crack your head on the pavement

no i don't think this random internet trans woman has ties to fucking jeffrey epstein are you all fucking shitting yourselves

it's like people nominally understand that minorities are subject to a lot of additional scrutiny, and like, if you pressed them on it they'd understand it's a lot harder to grow into a healthy well-rounded person under all that extra scrutiny, but if you point out that they're part of that process they're like. well she's a pedophile groomer menace to society [citation needed] we can't just like, NOT stalk her continuously

just like, look at the sheer VOLUME of the evidence. don't think too hard about if any of it actually means she harmed anyone just look at how big the pile is

also like the whole "do you ever leave your house" insult thrown at trans women, as if there isn't a systematic bigotry that'd make trans women stay in the house. like. you gotta remember what all these lines mean in context of society.

its geniunely insufferable levels of isolating how every single form of mostly single-issue politically minded blog on here be it about racism or ableism or intersexism or lesbophobia or biphobia or anti-nb sentiment or etc have spent years intentionally curating a space for discussion on here of these things which is intensely hostile to anyone tma and the notion the identity theyre posting about can coexist with transmisogynized identity is treated as completely ridiculous. and youre just not allowed to point it out even when youre in the intersection who is most impacted by the fact the majority of people who characterize themselves as Black Tumblr or Intersex Tumblr or Cripple Tumblr or etc are horrific level transmisogynists because you will be accused of positioning xyz minority as bigots. (theyre allowed to make "you cant transition out of racism/tma posters have an intersexism problem/etc" posts regularly though.)