Beautiful in Black

"Nothing shall ever happen to us except what Allah has ordained for us."

@beautiifulinblack

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Don't be afraid to keep redefining yourself. It is necessary for growth. One thing I have learned is that everything seems to have a box, or to fit into a certain image, an aesthetic if you will, for yourself or for the things you love, and as soon as we start to enjoy something new, we feel as if we must take on a whole new look, instead of realising that this new item is an addition to YOU. You are nottt an addition to this new item, human behavior is forever changing depending on the things we learn and see, and to feel like you must fit into a place without brining your whole, authentic, raw self is to lose yourself completely. You are you. Break peoples stereotypes of you, forever change and grow, forever discover new things and constantly change your opinion or appearance, try new things all the time. The worst that can happen is that you don't like it, and even in that you have now discovered more of yourself, more or what you like and dislike, this can only pave your path and character a certain way, a certain direction that is nothing but a more authentic version of yourself. If people can't understand this, or the concept of you changing or liking new things, disliking thing you used to like, then get some new friends, because they will stunt your growth in making you believe that there is nothing more to your character than what you have already become in the short time that they've known you. But what they don't know if that you're forever BECOMING. Get used to change. Keep redefining yourself and GROW GROW GROW!