BDSM Wisdom

Top Twelve: "Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power." ~ Oscar Wilde "You don't really need someone to complete you. ⇒ You only need someone to accept you completely." ~ @PsychoFactz "What one person sees as disgusting and bad for women might make some women feel empowered and beautiful and strong." ~ Sasha Grey "It is within the experience of everyone that when pleasure and pain reach a certain intensity they are indistinguishable." ~ Arnold Bennet "Strength in submission can be when you know yourself to be lost and admitting it, and begging for guidance instead of trying to wing it." ~ @BlushRedTail "SLUT: a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you." ~ Dossie Easton "If you don't love yourself; you'll always be chasing people who don't really love you, either." ~ @PsychoFactz BDSM: the damsel catch, rehabilitate, and release program of Dominants. "If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try." ~ Seth Godin ~ or; "The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek." ~ Joseph Campbell ~ or; Sometimes, what you're most afraid of doing is the very thing that will set you free. It's like a roller-coaster; "You scream, you cry, you cower in fear, and, when it's over, You feel glad you took the ride." ~ Chris M "Life begins at the end of your comfort zone." ~ unknown? "A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions." ~ Oliver Wendell Holmes ~ or; "If I had never found this way of life, I never would have known the real me." ~ You? And the eight paradigms that I find most profound: 1) Keep in mind that a submissive requires more than the average girl: More attention, more structure, more rules, more focus, more coaching, and, more time in general. ⇒ It's a lot for a Dom to take on, but, a girl gives up a lot when she submits her will to a Dominant. ⇒ This is the Power Exchange. 2) A submissive is an individual. She is completely free. What a Dominant values most is that, with that freedom of all the things she can do, she chooses to kneel before Him. 3) A Dom will teach his Sub the duality of being a real Princess. Things that we will never see on Disney! 4) If you can't make a girl feel like Your princess; You don't deserve to make her feel like Your slut! ~ Pain-Princess 5) The most telling thing about most Dominants is that they get more from their partner's satisfaction than from even their own! 6) “Yes, she submits. She submits her doubt. She submits her fear. She submits her worry. She sets her burdens at my feet and for a time is free of them all. What is left is a woman without fear, doubt, worry or burdens. It’s the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen.” ~ @1SadisticLover 7) Submission is a gift. Dominance is an Obligation. She gives you everything; her trust, her respect, her life. Return to her; Love, Dedication, Honor, and Protection. Sacrifice everything for her and protect her from all harm; even yours. 8) Dominance is a gift too. He accepts all aspects of the submissive; what she is and everything she can be. He gives her purpose and safe haven; a place to express her doubts & fears without worry of judgement. He offers peace, guidance, discipline, love, and aftercare. He loans his strength and courage when hers fails. He's always there, for her. ~ @William Austinmer This blog is for ADULTS ONLY and NSFW ⇒ if you're under 18 and stay; note that your illegal Internet activity here is logged and may embarrass you and/or your parents in the near future. Besides; Scarleteen is way cooler than watching your parents' foreplay here; click Scarleteen Seriously; by scrolling down, you attest that you are at least 18 years of age, you will not expose minors to this material, and that you accept total liability for viewing and sharing this blog's material. All pix herein come from a public posting, everyone depicted is presumed to be at least 18, and, everyone has presumably consented to the situation too. This blog does *NOT* condone criminal confinement/assault/rape!   Imho, a girl's submission is not about what is done to her; it's her selfless gift to others, with benefits. ;-)   If you own something here and want it removed; just ask. Personally, I'm 53 years old and have been happily married for 24 years so far. Tumblr is the only place I'm openly, obsessively, compulsively, kinky, and, I'm not seeking extramarital sex partners — sorry — and; forgive me for corresponding as little as I do. Imho, it's cruel (in a bad way ;-) to plant seeds when I can't dedicate sufficient time to cultivate them properly. I maintain two NSFW blogs: BDSM Wisdom ⇐ (archive) Bondage Monger   ⇐   (ar) ==> If you're using a PC; be sure to check-out my awesome archives too!