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Jess: actually didn’t feel school challenged him enough and it was boring to him, he also lacked self worth and didn’t believe he should even try to pass anyway because he didn’t think he would amount to anything anyway.

Jess hater: Jess manipulated Rory into leaving Dean.

Jess: loved Rory, didn’t kiss her first, didn’t tell her to break up with Dean, and Dean was the one who broke up with Rory.

Jess hater: he forced himself on Rory

Jess: stopped when she wanted to stop

Jess hater: Jess didn’t respect his elders

Jess: had no experience with adults who treated him like he deserved respect, and had no examples of how or reasons why he should respect adults automatically.

Jess hater: He was rude to Lorelai

Jess: Knew from the start that Lorelai wasn’t giving him a fair chance, so he didn’t try to win someone over who had already given up on him.

Jess hater: Jess didn’t treat Luke properly

Jess: learnt how to be a man after Luke had shown him, and he did see the error in his ways and respected Luke more than ever because Luke didn’t give up on him even when he hadn’t been the easiest to be around.

Jess hater: Jess was a bad boyfriend.