A BROWN BOY MAMA

You deserve a love that doesn't confuse your nervous system.

one day

i want to be able to feel at my core that you’re meant for me

Sorry to break it to you but you literally have to face your fears and slaughter them. Otherwise you will live a small life that you do not want. You literally have to view your biggest fears and attack them head on. You have to fall into the abyss to find your way out. The easy path does not exist. There is no get out of jail free card. You have to allow yourself to die a spiritual death over and over again in order to reinvent yourself into the person you are actually supposed to be. And you have to be painfully honest with yourself and the people around you. It’s horrible but it’s truly the only way.

people are so weird & then they question your distance. lmao

I might get hate for this but I feel like people who are self-proclaimed empaths who have a ‘big heart’ and are ‘too nice to everyone and love too deeply’ are often actually not that great… I think it’s because people who keep it real and admit that like everyone, they are flawed and capable of hurting others and being the bad guy, are usually way more self-aware and emotionally intelligent  which makes them a lot more pleasant to be around then someone who has a massive victim/superiority complex