follow me @menalez

nothing in that post is new. reactionaries often create an idealized version of the past as a method of justifying their view of the present as well as their political actions. "Butch lesbians used to be so normal and good, until [things that have always occurred within the Butch community]."

they do this for a lot of reasons, partly so that they can discard the voices of cis Butch lesbians like myself who disagree with them. if they can position us as degenerates and predators who are trying so desperately to be men, they don't need to listen to us. we are tainted by the queer agenda. we have fallen from the grace of our true divine feminine nature.

they're also just reactionaries working to protect the cisheteropatriarchy and policing gender expression.

you cannot say that you are pro-gender non-conformity in women and then act like masculine women are trying to be men. it's inherently contradictory. sorry not sorry. my masculinity has nothing to do with men, this is who i am. you can't tell transmasc people "why can't you just be a masculine woman?" and then say i am trying to be a man because i am a masculine woman.

when i fuck a woman with a strapon, men have nothing to do with it. you can't recoil from completely common expressions of lesbian sexuality and say you're supporting us, and you had better not pretend you're standing up for our sexual independence. it's fucking disgusting. it's perfectly okay to not like strap-on sex for yourself, but it is not okay to build your politics around your disgust regarding how some lesbians fuck and pretend that isn't lesbophobia.

you think you're doing something new by framing us as predators? you think you're doing something new by saying we're trying to be like men? you think you're doing something new by wrinkling your nose in disgust at my sexuality?

This is from one of the most popular terfs on this site, this is how they talk about Butches behind our backs.

Dysphoria has always existed in the Butch community, trans people have always existed in the Butch community... To use the term "normal" for the Butches you find acceptable is just absolutely laughable. To invent the term "autoandrophile" - itself a co-opting of another bullshit, fake concept - is laughable.

I’m not talking “engaging in Gerard gender politics” I’m talking identifying as radfems and commenting transphobic slurs, primarily for Gerard, on posts.

But the summary? It’s a post by menalez claiming that 41% of trans prisoners in the UK are sex offenders and she’s basically trying to guilt trip people by implying trans activists want to protect trans women at the cost of the safety of cis women while trying not to seem transphobic by claiming to care for the safety of trans women.

it was about respecting my partner’s identity. and the fact that they don’t get that respect from people in the exact community that they should be able to count on getting it from.

ie, you.

they are not het or cis, and no relationship they are in will ever be a “straight relationship” because they. are not. het. or. cis.

everyone in the notes gatekeeping me because I’m “not oppressed”? I never said I was. the person you’re really attacking and invalidating by shitting on this post is them, a pansexual nonbinary person who is unerasably queer.

Not possible huh?

nonbinary is not a biological phenomena. someone’s body can’t be nonbinary. someone may feel nonbinary but someone’s feelings aren’t enough to impact one’s material reality. 

And being non binary IS a biological phenomena as you said it.

Look at lobsters. They are both. In biology books they are stated to be non binary. And yes being both can make one identify as non binary. And yes there are indeed people who are both male and female.

“Look at lobsters” are we lobsters? i keep saying ‘human being’ because im talking about human biology, not lobsters. what do lobsters have to do with human relationship dynamics? 

so. i found receipts of @radicaldumbass being a racist about a year ago. i tried confronting her with this proof and she responded with this

the last message was one i sent because… shocker.. she was lying when she pretended not to be this person. here’s the proof:

so basically, this dude was being blatantly racist & misogynistic towards me, and then tried to cry that im anti-semitic bc i knew he was ashkenazi (and white) from his name that he made publicly available on his blog. he then started crying that he was doxxed by me when i only knew his name because it was linked to his blog. he then kept reposting these screenshots with his name (totally someone in fear of being doxxed, ey?) uncensored and claiming im anti-semitic. 

and for the other lies ur disgusting racist ass made up, heres the guy whos originally behind them. notice the inconsistencies in his stories:

these are on DIFFERENT OCCASIONS. every time he has a different story about me and now hes sending people anons with these same lies (i assume its him, at least)! i tried confronting him once by messaging him 

and the entire conversation he spent it pretending not to know who i am. 

so basically, this dude was being blatantly racist & misogynistic towards me, and then tried to cry that im anti-semitic bc i knew he was ashkenazi (and white) from his name that he made publicly available on his blog. he then started crying that he was doxxed by me when i only knew his name because it was linked to his blog. he then kept reposting these screenshots with his name (totally someone in fear of being doxxed, ey?) uncensored and claiming im anti-semitic. 

and for the other lies ur disgusting racist ass made up, heres the guy whos originally behind them. notice the inconsistencies in his stories:

these are on DIFFERENT OCCASIONS. every time he has a different story about me and now hes sending people anons with these same lies (i assume its him, at least)! i tried confronting him once by messaging him 

and the entire conversation he spent it pretending not to know who i am. 

the dude who kept calling me anti-semitic is someone who kept calling me cunt, bitch, and being blatantly racist towards me because im afro-arab. he started calling me anti-semitic bc i said that hes a white dude. he connected his FULL NAME to his blog. i posted a pic of him that was public and used his first name, to which he responded to by claiming to be doxxed. he reported me several times for it but.. shocker, he wasnt doxxed so it didnt happen. then he and his friends started making up lies about me because they foudn it funny. this is the same guy who went as far as harassing my ex-girlfriend, whos jewish, by insisting to her that i Hate Jews when ive literally done nothing anti-semitic. 

as for the lies that i outed someone to their family? like.. what? if this is about radicaldumbass, i literally only showed the first name she was using literally everywhere, i never gave away any of her personal info, and her facebook was deleted long ago so how tf would i even know who her family is?