Understanding Freestyling
Itâs obvious that the bowl is somewhat over-saturated, particularly on sugaring sites, with salts and salt babies - and thus, the proposed solution to finding generous men and procuring effective arrangements is freestyling and meeting these men in person, rather than online. Despite freestyling being praised as the new way of sugaring, there seems to be confusion on what exactly it is and what exactly to do when youâre at high-class establishments.
The most common definition appears to be going to high-class restaurants, clubs, and places where ârich people frequentâ, looking as though you belong there, and then having a rich man approach you or vice- versa, but it seems as though this method is becoming outdated. As the sugar bowl has become more popularized as journalists and college students try to capitalize on this sensation, the richest men and ideal targets are skeptical. If youâre on one of the many establishments of Wall Street, Capitol Hill, or downtown LA, youâll hear hedge fund managers, bankers, and trust fund babies talk about avoiding gold diggers when picking up women - and theyâve learned to tell the signs: expensive, attractive, well-dressed women sitting alone, waiting to be approached by men. Moreover, the wealthiest men generally will not approach women if they are strangers they donât know. Such developments call for a new approach in freestyling, which is not to say the old one should be completely abandoned, but rather that it no longer produces the level of success that it used to.
If youâre looking for genuinely rich men (especially not just new money, or those who think that because they have a $100K salary, theyâre rich), then the way of entering arrangements is through networking - which is not just meeting these men at wealthy establishments, but entering and mingling with their social circles. If youâre serious about this life and are looking to enter the upper class, become a socialite, or become a trophy wife, then nailing this skill is very important. The best arrangements, the most generous men, and the most valuable services Iâve acquired have always been through men that I was introduced to through social circles or a friend. Example: I have a male acquaintance that I was introduced to by a mutual friend, and when it was obvious there was chemistry, he introduced me to his other friend, a trust fund baby, and together with two other girls we went on a weekend trip to the trust fund babyâs lakeside house, complete with a jacuzzi, jet skis, and tubing. His net worth/income is impressive for his age (one year older than me), but isnât enough for me to pursue a physical arrangement with him. However, he works in finance and has a knack for investment, and weâve entered an agreement where he invests my money and keeps 20% of the investment, but over a year heâs nearly doubled the thousands of dollars I originally gave him to investment. Youâll see this through practice as well: how did Prince Harry and Prince William meet their current wives? Through their social circles and current friends. Youâll understand why rich men tend to date rich women, isnât necessarily because they have a preference for rich women or that rich women are more attractive (though there may be correlation) but rather because in their social circles that is the kind of woman theyâre often introduced to. When youâre wealthy and powerful, itâs not in your interest to talk to most people - because naturally, people will be coming to you. In this way, social circles act as a means of both protecting their wealth and status and separating the cream of the crop to include those that are attractive, have social approval, and have a lifestyle fit with these men for ideal romantic partners.
So how do you âbreakâ into such circles? How do you make the results of freestyling become a reality?
â˘First, if youâre just starting out or are looking for an allowance, it will be relatively difficult to find the *exact* results that you want. You can see from billionaires or men renown from their wealth, they take care of women who arenât necessarily at their financial level, but have stability and some income of their own. This makes them more attractive because for super wealthy men, they are used to groupies/women throwing themselves at them, so when they encounter someone who is attractive, interested in them, yet has a level of financial independence, this poses a challenge and makes them more likely to invest in you for sponsorship, SGF, or trophy wife, whichever you wish.
â˘That being stated, I encourage freestyling from the very beginning, since even on standard dating platforms thereâs an inundation of time-wasters and irrelevant folks who try to capitalize on the beauty of a young, attractive woman. So to get started, first, you have to network. Assuming you already know how to take care of yourself and to network, the next step is finding out where the rich and successful people in your area hang out. Humans are naturally social, and so when a girl claims she cannot find worthwhile men, it must be that sheâs investing time or social energy into the wrong kinds of men. Envision the kind of life or standards that youâre looking for, and delete any man who doesnât meet these standards or contributes no use to you. This will free up space and social networking so you can pursue relationships with men who CAN invest in you. If youâre looking for men who can do more than buy you fast food and share Netflix subscriptions, delete those that do.
â˘Next, do some research about which social circles to join. Itâs good to decide what kind of interests you have - are they political? Financial? Perhaps youâre interested in philanthropy. If youâre not sure, thatâs fine and join as many as possible, and make sure they have a certain level of status or are inviting the right people, or else they will just be another waste of your time. Go to the introductory meetings and dress to impress, and make a great first impression. Introduce yourself, have a story about yourself, and make small talk, and if youâre attractive and reasonably socially-skilled, youâll find that people are drawn to you. Once one person is interested, the rest will follow. Some women are too transparent by only mingling with the men - take great care to establish good relations with the women there, because they can put in a good and very influential word for you.
â˘Go to these events, meet new people, and continue going to them. Men will want to contact you and will ask for your number - you should give it, but donât get overexcited or too eager. You have to refine through these men and ensure that theyâre ones that youâd like to date or to pursue arrangements with. So contact them, be approachable, but also ensure that you present yourself as having other things going for you. You donât have to necessarily be working but having your own savings, own assets, whether those are from yourself, your family, or another man, are important. Always, always, always have the man approach you first. If he doesnât seem interested, never seem discouraged and just move on to the next one. Have a mentality of abundance. Next step is testing him and doing your research.
â˘Before doing anything, you should be able to answer the following questions (outlined in books like Ho Tactics):
-Where does he work and live?
-Is he wealthy, and if so, where does his wealth come from? (Trust fund baby, old money, self-made) What profession is he in? Does he look wealthy or is he actually wealthy?
-And most importantly, is he generous? (How much money does he drop on his hobbies, is he cheap/frugal, does he like spending money on women)
Most women get caught up in the generosity, because sadly, wealth is not equivalent to generosity. Test him by going out on a date and seeing what he proposes. Generous men tend to be quite obvious, in my opinion, and wonât show any hesitation in paying for services, calling you Ubers, or taking you on spontaneous trips and otherwise showing off their wealth. If he doesnât seem generous, drop him immediately. If he makes any excuse that seems disingenuous, drop him immediately. If he tries to force any physical contact, drop him immediately. If he makes any complaint on spending, drop him immediately. Trust your intuition. Filter through the trash. A superior man will take his place.
â˘By the second date, you should already have established that youâre high-value. Be nice and pleasant, but donât be so easily impressed. This is where he should be spending more, and you should establish the dynamics of the relationship. Hold off on physical contact until youâve filtered through his intentions and gotten what you wanted. Some girls are confused as to whether or not they should be upfront or not, whether to ask for allowance straight up or not. Itâs difficult to say, because this varies from person to person - and I would say go with what your intuition tells you and do whatâs most comfortable in the persona you adopt. Maybe making up a sob story or emotional manipulation is what youâre best at. Maybe it just suits you better to be blunt. Maybe batting your eyelashes and asking to go shopping is your forte. Whatever works for you. Just make sure you establish the grounds of the relationship and get what you want before anything physical happens. Have foresight on what you want and get the money/gifts FIRST.
â˘Next is⌠upgrade. Play the dynamics of an arrangement/relationship and see what his relationship needs are. Fulfill them. But always play the game, and never get too attached. Women may get insecure in relationships - âWhat if he finds someone hotter than me, younger than me, with a better body than me?â Donât get insecure and donât rely on male validation. Have confidence in yourself. He is with you for a reason. You can also do the exact same - there will be better men in the midst, and continuing to be desirable to check his ego is important. But in the meantime, maintaining your looks, beauty, and hobbies are important if you are dedicated to this lifestyle. If you want to date vanilla, fine, go ahead, but if youâre looking to escort/sugar/sell pussy.. whatever you want to call it⌠you need to consistently upgrade using the resources youâre given. Take great care to not get emotionally attached if youâre not satisfied with the lifestyle you have right now - which requires emotional discipline. Remember that there will always be richer men, hotter men, more successful men, or men who have more of all three qualities.
