I would actually go as far as to call him a predecessor to Nabokov's Humbert in how he is an unreliable narrator that intellectualizes misogyny through his dark neoclassical ravings about some bizarre crap. Also, in the aggressive attempt to get into the violent hierarchy (where it's really a man who decides if he's to rule or be ruled) he himself invented, and so on.
The book does have the elements that fit the pop culture idea of it, the image of Severin as a masochistic lover who prioritizes Wandaβs desires, but only at first.
"What shall I do with you?" she began anew.
Β "Whatever you wish," I replied with resignation, "whatever will give you pleasure."
Β "How illogical!" she cried, "first you want to make me your wife, and then you offer yourself to me as something to toy with."
Yet it ends with poor Wanda (who is a surprisingly complex character) turned into a misogynistic fantasy of his. There's a moment she's about to break out of it, so Severin straight up attacks her and threatens her with murder if she dares to end their fling and marry another guy. The antiquity-style tragedy of passion here felt so weird on the background of a pretty postmodern POV.
"If you won't be mine now," I continued, with a voice stifled with rage, "no one else shall possess you either."
"I shall kill you if you marry him," I threatened; the words came hoarsely and dully from my breast. "You are mine, I won't let you go, I love you too much."
Through the whole book she keeps on telling him that it makes her dislike him and that she doesn't really feel it. But Severin doesn't give a damn as long as his single rule of her leaving him is left unbroken.
He doesn't even see her as a human, but some sort of a Sims character to play with as he wishes. Neither does he surrender power to Wanda, but actually executes his power over her so she performs his fantasies. His obsession with female power is truly a weapon of disempowerment.
With the bizarre racist phantasmagoria in Italy and Wandaβs identity splitting in two, Wanda and Venus in Fur, she herself comes to see the reality of it, speaking of what Severin turned her into.
βGood God, are you a woman without flesh or blood, haven't you a heart as well as I!" I cried, while my breast heaved convulsively.
Β
"You know what I am," she replied, coldly. "I am a woman of stone, Venus in Furs, your ideal, kneel down, and pray to me."