Case in point: I have art references dating all the way back from 2007 that I still haven’t categorized 😭
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Case in point: I have art references dating all the way back from 2007 that I still haven’t categorized 😭

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clinical medicine is simple, basically the way it works is 99.999% of doctors don't know anything at all, so they only treat the 10–15 most common problems in their specialty. this might sound bad, but actually it's better, because 99.999% of patients don't have any complex medical problems anyway, which we know because they've never been diagnosed with anything except the 10–15 most common problems in the relevant specialty, because in order to be evaluated for something else they would have to be referred to one of the 0.001% of doctors who occasionally know something about some other condition, but they can't get that referral because they obviously don't need it because they've only been diagnosed with simple problems that the other 99.999% of doctors evaluate. so as U can see it's really about ensuring every patient gets the best possible care.
Yknow what, there’s too much discourse about the “dump your puppygirl” series of articles by people who haven’t taken a moment to do basic good faith reading comprehension (on both sides)
- Did you finish the source material you’re analyzing? (This means all 4 articles in the series not simply “dump your puppygirl”) Why or why not? If not, how do you think this lack of context affects your understanding of the text?
- What message or idea was the author trying to convey? What textual evidence is for and against this understanding of the text? Do you think this message is helpful or harmful? Why or why not?
- What is your initial interpretation of the text? Does it line up with the authors intent? What evidence is for and against this interpretation? How do your personal biases and background influence how you interpret the text?
- How did this article make you feel? Is this feeling helpful or harmful? How do these feelings influence your personal interpretation? Is that influence helpful or harmful to understanding the text? How have your biases and background influenced these feelings?
- Who was included in the text? What circumstances or groups were forgotten about or ignored? How does this affect the text? Does it weaken its points? Why did the author ignore or forget these groups? How did the authors personal biases and background influence how she wrote the text?
not gonna engage with dump your puppygirl line by line bc honestly everything has already been said, but a slightly more meta thought: in her most recent post (taking the dog out for a walk), i think tara finally came close to making the point she wanted to make.
& there is a spark of truth to it—about people who have been stomped on by life learning not to keep stomping on themselves, about self-protection and when it starts to push people away, about learning that pity isn't the only way that love can manifest. but that is not at all what dump your puppygirl was about. that essay-story was mean-spirited, and based in a really baggy metaphor, and so... ideologically imprecise that it ended up grounding itself in transmisogynistic and ableist thinking.
what she needed to start to get somewhere was three drafts, and criticism from a friend, and reflection, and time going over her ideas while actually out living her life instead of sitting at the computer. so this post is just a plea that if you are trying to Make a Point or Advance the Discourse—if you're not just venting about personal relationship issues, but trying to generalize and analyze them as a trend that has large scale social factors influencing it (and even throw Marx in there, why not)—then it is really, really worth taking your time and being rigorous and precise with your language and ideas.
find a few friends who will help you think through your work, people who know you well and read you in good faith but aren't afraid to poke holes in your ideas. yes, even if you're a professional writer. set things down and come back to them days or weeks later. pretend you're your own worst enemy and try to figure out where people will read malice into your language.
don't just create a great big mix of emotion, reality, theory, and fiction and throw it out into the world without development. it's irresponsible and it hurts people, like these articles obviously have. & it cheapens the discourse and normalizes reactionary thinking instead of actually building forward.
Policing the use of sanist language has got to be the most useless and counterproductive way to be anti-psych.
Tbh, I'm significantly less concerned with people casually using the word crazy to mean busy or overwhelming or something than I am with people adopting clinical psychiatric language in an attempt to appropriate the pathologizing function of psychiatry for themselves (as in the case of people using "narcissist" to essentially mean "evil person" and diagnosing everyone in their life as a narcissist).
Everybody is anti-DSM until they want to diagnose someone they dislike with ontologically evil disorder (aka rancid bitch disease).

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Hot take but rigid divisions between queer identities and heavily-policed labels that are treated like diagnoses are really, really bad.
Trans men have shared histories with lesbians who have shared histories with bisexual women who have shared histories with ace people who have shared histories with aro people have shared histories with gay men who have shared histories with trans women who have shared histories with nonbinary people who have shared histories with etc etc etc etc etc.
Labels are important for people who want them, but we need to stop treating sexuality and gender as rigid boxes and checklists.
yes. labels aren’t a fort you need to protect; labels are a pin you can add to your backpack to signal being part of something. You can, in fact, have more than one label (as a treat).
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The test for allyship isn't how you treat an oppressed person who is your friend, family, spouse. It's how you treat an oppressed person you absolutely can't stand who is vile and loathsome in every way.
Do you gender trans people correctly even when they're being absolutely terrible people? Do you refuse to use the r-slur against someone who suicide baited you but is neurodivergent? Do you refuse to snark at a mentally ill person who is being genuinely unpleasant, "go take your meds!"
Do you allow members of marginalized groups to be terrible people without judging their entire demographic for it? One of the most invisible yet vital forms of privilege is the right to be terrible people as an individual rather than as a group. Do you acknowledge that there are bad people in every group, that it doesn't make their group less worth fighting for? Or do you shake your head if you happen to get mistreated by some who belong to a group and insist the entire group is awful and not worth your allyship?
Oppressed people can see how you treat those of us you like, but do you still treat the worst of us with the basic dignity you treat the worst of other groups with?

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the key to avoiding symbolismslop is sincere, thoughtful intent btw
it's fine to create art that has deer skull god (she/her) (queering it) pomegranate sun/moon symbolism in it but you need to ask yourself, why a deer skull and not another animal? what does queering it add to the text's portrayal of religion? why a pomegranate specifically? are the sun and moon the most appropriate celestial bodies to represent the meaning i'm trying to convey to my audience? what am i trying to say here?
"it looks cool" and "everyone else is doing it so i guess i should as well" are the creativity killers. inspiration requires introspection otherwise it's just imitation!!!
When you feel discomfort at a marginalized group but feel that expressing so would be wrong, it is very common to come up with "progressive" justifications for non-involvement.
Oh, no, my non-involvement with Black art is because I'm not Black. Black people have gone long enough dealing with appropriation and people like me (non-Black) have taken up enough Black spaces enough. So really, I'm actually doing a good thing by non listening to Black music, watching Black movies, reading books by Black authors.
No, you see, trans people are so chronically fetishized and belittled that it's normal for me to feel suspicious and wary to see trans people in sexual contexts, intimate contexts, nudes, artwork, etc. It would be best in fact if I did not engage in erotic or romantic works involving trans people at all.
The insidious part of these kinds of justifications is that they are often based on actual issues that minoritized people will openly discuss, but have a convenient "side effect" (really, it's the Whole Point) of allowing you to silo yourself away from groups you are not involved with or comfortable around while patting yourself on the back saying you're actually doing a good thing by segregating your tastes, hobbies, and preferences to an exclusive diet of mainstream hegemonic art
Sometimes little pleasures in life are loadbearing. Whenever someone is like "If you'd just give up tea and coffee and sugar and--" im like I'll stop you right there. Because if you finish that sentence i am going to kill everyone in this building and then myself. If i have to face the horrors of the world without my little jar of caramel flavoured instant coffee i am going to go full American Psycho. Believe it or not, my main priority in life is not to have perfect teeth or be an Olympic athlete or look like a supermodel, but to actually enjoy living, because I spent far too long not doing that and it royally sucked. And boy, some people don't like hearing that. Particularly dentists
this is so funny to me did lestat himself post this
lestat immediately after ruining everyone around him’s lives: how would i describe myself? well i am much like the giving tree in the classic shel silverstein novel “the giving tree”
You actually cannot skip to being good at a creative endeavour that you haven't put much practice into. You cannot trick your way out of the 'knows that your work is not what you want it to be but don't know how to improve it' stage by planning or reading or talking about it really really hard. At some point you just have to craft through it until your brain finds it's own unique way back to the 'everything I make slaps' stage and be prepared to start the cycle all over again. You just have to make that project you're excited about slightly less good than you want it to be. (Says this standing in a pool of blood and covered in blood and also coughing up a little blood)
everyone stop reblogging this I hate to be reminded of my own good advice

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One of the most annoying genres of people on the internet are people who act like they believe science is one single monolithic thing. Like, you'll see an article saying something like "scientists studying the movement of tectonic plates", and then in the comments there'll be several smug people saying "smh why are scientists doing this instead of finding a cure for cancer", like. Why would a geologist be doing that.
this fetish stuff is getting out of hand what the fuck is word play