lose control

He loved her, he loved her, and until he’d loved her she had never minded being alone.

Truman Capote, Summer Crossing (via books-n-quotes)

no one wants to hear it but love is earned after the initial infatuation. commitment is something u both mutually agree to and then from there it’s work. it’s not work like it’s a chore it’s jus work like it takes effort. to get good at these things takes practice. it takes practice to learn to communicate better and it takes practice to learn to love each other in the ways u need to be loved.

When Cardi B said, “if I see you and we don’t speak that means I don’t fuck with you.” I felt that.

Relationships are so fucking scary to me. No matter how great things are going or how in love you are, your significant other could always just lose feelings for you and be gone. And none of that is in any of your control.