My body is but a #avoidant personality disorder temple.

Quick question while on my break: do you think bpd and personality disorders in general could be called disabilities? I genuinely often feel so useless and unable to do shit (hence why I reduced my work hours) and it genuinely feels like a disability. If it provides better context, I do have depression, anxiety, bpd and avpd. Like at what point am I considered disabled? Cause I feel like I'm failing to do basic things most days but I'd feel like an impostor calling myself disabled.

adding to this now that i’ve been calm for a while and i’ve thought of it, the “Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style” also incredibly ableist towards people with StPD and SzPD, as opposed to the “Fearful Avoidant” that’s ableist towards people with AvPD. I saw a couple posts from people who (not armchair diagnosing, but) describe having symptoms of StPD/SzPD and struggling with relationships because of it and there was a disgusting amount of people calling them toxic and abusive, implying they act like that on purpose, and to never try and form relationships. I also read about “Anxious Attachment Style” and without looking at threads discussing it (for my own sanity) i just know they are being grossly ableist towards people with BPD and DPD. Genuinely, fuck all of you who think that way. This is just yet another tiktok pop psychology term for “personality disorder abuse” and honestly i feel like not enough people are talking about this.

Healthy people will never understand what a massive achievement it is to do your laundry AND cook yourself a meal in one day.

Sometimes i kinda wish i was passionate about something, anything, instead everything i end up liking is always to a shallow and fleeting level