Be your own hero.

Discuss identity. Do you prefer person first (person with autism) or identity first (autistic person) language? Why? Do you consider autism to be an important part of who you are?

Personally, I rather be called autistic person that person with autism, because as we already said many times you can't separate a person from their autism. 

I don't like the term "living with autism" or worse "suffering from autism".

Talk about your autistic headcanons.

First I automatically headcanon every character I relate to has being autistic either I have proof in the canon or not.

But with that said, for my absolute favorite autistic headcanon I have a lot of proof. :)

And my favorite autistic headcanon is KARA DANVERS !

As I already talked about that I really think that being autistic in this neurotypical world is very similar to being an alien in a human world.

Kara experiences the world differently than humans.

She sees things most people can see and hear everything louder, which can be overwhelming a lot of times.

She also suffers from being hyper empathetic, which cause her to feel guilty over things she has no reason to feel guilty about.

She sometimes struggles with social cues.

She can have meltdowns and shutdowns and it's seems that only Alex can calm her down when it's happening.

She does a lot of stimmy stuffs.

http://autistickryptonian.tumblr.com/post/154143318686/kara-danvers-is-autistic.  This post did a better job than me at pick-up her autistic traits so check it out. 

Whatever, KARA DANVERS IS AUTISTIC and no one can convince me otherwise.