Last week, another anon submitted info about Cade's wedding, and you publicly thanked them for confirming. Now you’re saying, ‘What wedding?’ That’s confusing. Either share what you know about the wedding or don’t mention it at all; the in-between move doesn’t make sense. Or the anon can share. This superior gatekeeping is insane in a fandom. We’re all here to be nosy.
What we won't do is use fake feminism and “just say you hate women” to call out someone’s unprofessional behavior. Tatiana, yes, posts her job, her clients, and events as she should. But how she covers Yahya, MBJ, or Jon Bernthal is different than how she covers Austin. On Ms. Lori’s birthday, I think those pap pics the extra ones came out maybe the day before. Tatiana AND the facility page posted that single pic of Austin having his arm around her shoulder. Most of that day and many days, she reposted other Austin pages reposting it. Even the facility did it at 3 AM LA time, adding Elvis's “Suspicious Minds” to the IG story. Why not post what he did THAT day? Let's not forget the facility posting that old training video of him in April, wishing him a happy birthday when it wasn't.
She has a crush on him its obvious, and that's fine. Don't gaslight me or that other anon about what we saw, just because you didn't. She did a collab post with Yahya for Man on Fire (2), including with him at the premiere. Thats work, and he is in a relationship with his stylist (I follow Yahya and his partner Jenn). Tati isnt doing all that extra shit with him; Jon is married that's a platonic relationship and Jon seems to adore and respect her.
If this explanation makes me weird, so be it. Some of you were coming up with strategies on how Austin should use his then IG to paint a better picture than what Vanessa’s fans have done. Or saying it would be nice for Austin and Vanessa to get closure, the way she and Zac did. Like she didn't show her ass when Darla died, but me and the other anon are “weird” okay.
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Last week, another anon submitted info about Cade's wedding, and you publicly thanked them for confirming. Now you’re saying, ‘What wedding?’ That’s confusing. Either share what you know about the wedding or don’t mention it at all; the in-between move doesn’t make sense.
I asked the anon what wedding because I wasn't sure which wedding they were referring to because the anon didn't specify! We've been talking about Callum and Dua's wedding on my blog for the past several days, so I wasn't sure if they were asking about their wedding details from last weekend, or the upcoming details on their wedding in Italy this weekend, or Austin's cousin's wedding, etc. The anon didn't specify, that's why I asked.
The anon isn't going to share. If they wanted to share with the world, they wouldn't have politely asked me not to post their ask privately. 🥴 They didn't even want me to post their ask, but I responded to them so that they knew that I received their ask instead of just ignoring them.
This superior gatekeeping is insane in a fandom. We’re all here to be nosy.
Nobody is gatekeeping anything. I'll repeat this again: the anon asked me not to post. What do you want me to do? Go against their wishes?? 🤨 There are many valid reasons why an Anon wouldn't want their ask posted, and it's just supposed to be an FYI for the blog owner.
Btw, many blog owners have gotten ridiculed and hated on for exposing private matters/info of celebrities online. Sometimes not posting something that someone has politely asked you specifically not to publicly post is a protection, and it also establishes trust between you (the blog owner) and your anons. I already got more than enough hate for simply posting the pictures of Austin over his cousin's house and kissing her pregnant belly, even though the photos were already all over the internet. 🙄
What we won't do is use fake feminism and “just say you hate women” to call out someone’s unprofessional behavior.
What about her behavior is unprofessional? 🤔
List the ways. I'm listening.
Tatiana, yes, posts her job, her clients, and events as she should. But how she covers Yahya, MBJ, or Jon Bernthal is different than how she covers Austin. On Ms. Lori’s birthday, I think those pap pics the extra ones came out maybe the day before. Tatiana AND the facility page posted that single pic of Austin having his arm around her shoulder. Most of that day and many days, she reposted other Austin pages reposting it. Even the facility did it at 3 AM LA time, adding Elvis's “Suspicious Minds” to the IG story. Why not post what he did THAT day? Let's not forget the facility posting that old training video of him in April, wishing him a happy birthday when it wasn't.
Maybe Austin is friends with them? I'm still trying to understand how any of this is a problem or how this is "unprofessional".
She has a crush on him its obvious, and that's fine. Don't gaslight me or that other anon about what we saw, just because you didn't. She did a collab post with Yahya for Man on Fire (2), including with him at the premiere.
Okay, I'll go along with your assumption. Let's say Tetiana does have a crush on Austin. And??? So what?? I still don't see a problem here.
Thats work, and he is in a relationship with his stylist (I follow Yahya and his partner Jenn). Tati isnt doing all that extra shit with him; Jon is married that's a platonic relationship and Jon seems to adore and respect her.
Well then I think you answered your own question here, right? 😄
My point wasn't that she is after all of the male clients she works with. My point was that she is friendly and touchy with basically everyone! She was the same way with Austin even when he was dating ykw!
Not everything is sexual in nature Anon.
Could she have a crush on Austin? Idk, maybe?
My issue wasn't with her possibly being interested in Austin or not (I'm not even sure what her preferences are tbh), my issue, and the reason why another anon and I called you and others (or maybe it's just you!) out is because you (all) were being highly misogynistic towards that woman, and for what?? Because she posted a cute video of her with Austin? 🤨 Because she reposted photos of her and Austin from Austin's fan accounts where she was probably tagged? Because the company posted a birthday tribute post to Austin in April on a day and month that wasn't even his birthday? 😄 Gee, shows how much they know him if they don't even know his actual birthdate. We don't even spend time with Austin like that and we all know his birthday is in August lol. 😅
Look -- Nobody is gaslighting you Anon. But you need to see the full picture. We're rightfully calling out you (and others) on your very weird behavior, and the way you all are treating a woman you don't even know very rudely for basically doing nothing.
It's weird fans like you who give other normal Austin fans a bad name and make the rest of us look like jealous fangirls to others looking in at the fandom. 😭 When Austin can't even stand next to a woman who might be single without being ostracized, or assumed to be after him, I'm sorry, but that is a problem. 🤨
And you all (maybe not you specifically, but the segment of Austin's fandom that is like this) have done this to other women as well!
You all almost automatically hate on any woman who you all assume Austin might have an attraction to, or who he might even be in close contact with!
The woman at the Cannes after-party simply standing next to Austin (you all were quick to assume that was his new gf and proceeded to hate on her 😒)
Emily Ratajkowski (I think this is self-explanatory 😑)
Zoe Kravitz (yea, maybe her past can be a bit iffy, but there was absolutely nothing Zoe was doing that warranted the amount of hate she received on many social media outlets from Austin's fandom all throughout their "Caught Stealing" press tour for no good reason, other than looking hot next to him. 🤨 There wasn't even anything going on between them! She was always dating other people!)
The woman on the balcony in NYC (again, more assumptions)
Don't you see a pattern? 🥴
You all always jump to conclusions and assume that Austin is dating every woman he breathes next to, or assume that every woman who dares to stand next to him must have a crush on him. Granted, Austin is a beautiful man, so if these women have crushes on him, then so be it?
Last I checked, it's not a crime to have a crush on someone. 🤔
If this explanation makes me weird, so be it.
It's the obvious misogyny I don't like. That Teriana woman isn't doing anything wrong, and the ask from that anon (or maybe it was you?) was rude as hell and totally uncalled for! All because she posted a video having fun with Austin? 🥴
Seriously, it's fans like you all who make Austin's fandom look crazy. 🤪
Austin is going to date someone seriously again one day, and fans just need to get used to that fact. In the meantime though, we don't need to be jumping to conclusions, making assumptions, or crucifying every woman who happens to be single and who comes within 5-feet of Austin Butler. 😒
Some of you were coming up with strategies on how Austin should use his then IG to paint a better picture than what Vanessa’s fans have done.
What's wrong with that exactly? Sometimes, when you're being hated on for no good reason, it's good to take back control and control the narrative.
We weren't saying he must do this, we were just expressing ways that would help him to have a more favorable public opinion since V stans have basically tried their hardest to decimate his image. 🙄
Or saying it would be nice for Austin and Vanessa to get closure, the way she and Zac did. Like she didn't show her ass when Darla died, but me and the other anon are “weird” okay.
Again, what's wrong with that? I don't care for how Vanessa treated Austin after their breakup at all, nor did I like how she handled the death of Darla and her posts about the dog. I've already mentioned many times what my thoughts were on that topic on my blog.
But life is way too short to be carrying such hate and resentment (and nobody can tell me she doesn't have it) for someone for years. It only hurts you in the end. So yea, if they had a peaceful closure conversation, then I wouldn't mind that. Who knows how Austin might feel? Maybe he feels guilty. Maybe he's apathetic to the whole thing. We don't know. But she obviously seems to still be carrying a grudge. You don't even need the other person to have closure tbh. You can find that within yourself.
I don't think that it's weird at all that fans would want emotional peace between Austin and Vanessa both, since they did date each other for nearly a decade. What's wrong with that? 🤔
