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N-No thank you, sir.

I feel like this is very hypocritical of me to say, but I honestly don't care

you're probably like, "well violet, aren't you mainly a smut account?"

and yes, you're right. but that doesn't mean that I only talk about the people I write about in a sexual way.

they're people. real, breathing people, who are so much more than their bodies. and seeing how so many other people only think of san as some sex object really infuriates me if I'm being honest.

imagine if someone talked about you like that, and only saw you for your body. you might get uncomfortable, feel like you're nothing more than your looks, and start to get self conscious about your appearance.

I know san has seen the comments lots of "atinys" have been saying since their recent comeback, and it hurts to know that they could've made him even more self conscious than before.

I know this is very touchy considering how I write about him in a very mature way, but that doesn't mean that I only see him as that.

all I'm trying to get at is; how about we acknowledge him for other things?

his voice, how much he's improved since kq fellaz, and make him feel like we love him because of him, and not just because of how beautiful he is on the outside.

I know the majority of the people who read this love san for who his is as a person, and respect him as such. but if you disagree with me, than you're part of the problem and exactly the type of people I'm calling out.

and to those of you who think "oh, well he wore a crop top, so he wanted to be sexualized." or "he knows what he's doing, maybe he should've worn more modest clothes."

shut the fuck up, please, just get the fuck out

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Hongjoong : 

⇢ he’s upset that you are still so insecure of your weight

⇢ but he would be understanding and wouldn’t push you into something you aren’t comfortable with just yet 

⇢ “baby, we can try a different position, if that’ll make you feel better” 

Seonghwa : 

⇢ is already too wrapped up in pleasure that he isn’t worried at all 

⇢ he only wants to pleasure you, so he doesn’t care how heavy you think you might be 

⇢ “babe, please, just sit on my face so I can eat you out” 

Yunho : 

⇢ Yunho would be hurt that you think so lowly of yourself 

⇢ he would just pepper kisses on you until you feel better and the two of you would try again when you feel more comfortable 

⇢ “its okay baby, we can do this another night. let’s get you cleaned up, yeah?” 

Yeosang :

⇢ Yeosang would be understanding, but doesn’t back down says you have nothing to worry about

⇢ convinces you that if you just relax, you won’t be in your head so much

⇢ “baby, just relax.. I’ll make you feel so good”

San : 

⇢ like Yunho, he’s such a soft babie and wouldn’t like to see you so insecure in such an intimate situation 

⇢ he would just try to comfort you and make you understand that he loves you no matter what

⇢ “Y/N, you’ve always been so beautiful and sexy to me”

Mingi : 

⇢ tbh he doesn’t care, he just wants to eat you out

⇢ reassures that he can handle your weight, and that you never have to feel insecure or ashamed of yourself

⇢ “come here baby, lemme make you feel good”

Wooyoung : 

⇢ he’s never cared about you weight before, and he certainly doesn’t care now 

⇢ would make a small playful joke to lighten the mood and ease your worries 

⇢ “baby I don’t care if you suffocate me, just sit on my face” 

Jongho :

⇢ just like Wooyoung, he doesn’t care at all. It’s never been an issue for him before 

⇢ reassures you that everything is okay and that he really wants to please you