hello! i hope your exams went well and you're able to get some rest over the summer.
i was wondering what the etiquette is like regarding communal spaces (bathrooms, kitchens/gyps, etc.) late at night?
e.g. is it frowned upon to shower/make snacks/do laundry late at night? are the facilities far away enough from the rooms that the sound doesn't travel or does it vary by staircase? if it is frowned upon, what's the general "quiet time" -- e.g. can you shower/make breakfast at 4-5am?
i'm an undergrad offer holder and this feels like one of those "unspoken rules" but i'd appreciate having a loose idea of the etiquette before i arrive, especially since it'll be my first time living with people who aren't immediate family.
thank you for your time!
Hey, thank you! You'll be fine, really. It's just about common sense for the most part. It's student accommodation, of course, so it's inevitable that people will be coming and going at different times of day (or night), and I've shared floors with people that are out until 2-3 am at least twice a week. It's just something you learn to live with. Sound can definitely travel down the halls, but that'll depend on your staircase. If you're staying in one of the older buildings they're less likely to have proper noise isolation and yes, there will always be people closest to the bathrooms/kitchens who will inevitably hear the doors, showers, or cooking. Generally, as long as you don't act completely ignorant of noise, people will be understanding. There's rowers who have to get up early, people who are more active in the mornings naturally, people who do batch cooking but do it in the morning and not evening - like I say, it's student accommodation. If someone on your floor makes a big deal of what is a natural consequence of sharing with others, that's not on you. In my experience, people start moving around at about 6 AM, but as long as you're not clanging pans or walking back and forth between the showers and your room constantly (or letting the door constantly fall closed with a bang so early, things like that), you'll be fine. The only thing I have seen people get properly annoyed about is students who bring over friends and then proceed to be loud for hours, until well into the night. I had someone like this on my floor in second year and can confirm it is a pain to deal with, especially since they let their friends hang in our (very cramped) kitchen until midnight and, I assume because their room was too small, they'd just hang out in the hallway and make noise there. It only stopped during exam season. It's stuff like that that would be plain disrespectful. As long as you're not doing something like that, people should be understanding! Just be mindful of the noise you make, but don't let it hinder your routine. You'll be hearing people arriving/going at different times. You might get up at 4, someone else might be coming back from a late night out at 3. Don't stress too much, it's all good!









