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artistformerlyknownasbutttrumpet

i was training a young person at work, and she referred to sexual assault as "SA" out loud, and i immediately was like, "no, it's sexual assault, call it what it is," bc idgaf if the algorithm overlords have taught y'all that you should fear direct language, how tf do any of you expect to ever address real issues with any amount of seriousness if you can't even say the words? imagine an advocate looking a sexual assault survivor in the eyes and asking "did he grape you?" it's absolutely fucking absurd, but these young interns and new hires are coming into an environment where we deal with survivors of all different kinds of abuse, and they're coming with the mindset that the words are as bad as the actions, and that makes them shitty at the job and look juvenile af

i HATE self-censorship for a lot of reasons, but being in crisis work makes it even more frustrating. who are you censoring for? like i am being so fr, WHO are you censoring for? have you even thought it through? people who have been raped know that they have been raped. if someone attempts suicide or is grieving someone who did, saying "sewer slide" isn't going to protect them from any of the feelings. a murder victim's family isn't going to feel better bc you said "unalived" instead of murdered. if anything, it's just extremely invalidating and othering. it's saying "what happened to you is so bad that i won't even say the word," which is NOT trauma-informed care. you are not protecting survivors/victims when you self-censor. the ONLY things you protect when you self-censor are the puritanical ideologies that are being encouraged by rich fascists who want your money and obedience

say the fucking words, guys. just say the goddamn words before i go insane!!!

blackswallowtailbutterfly

This is exactly what I've been saying. Some people are like "well, I agree with not using grape or unalive, but there's nothing wrong with SA or CSA!" And no. I'm in the printing business. You know how many companies I see whose names would fit those acronyms? And you think people are going to take sexual assault and child sexual abuse discussions seriously with those? For fuck's sake. If it's about shortening the terms in a long post, then you state them in full at the beginning and use the acronyms afterward. There is no excuse to use those acronyms in a single paragraph or less.

holyvomitus

as a victim of a violent crime, it makes it harder to talk about too. why would I even try to discuss it if the people meant to be helping me won't even say the words rape or attempted murder? it makes me worry about their comfort level over mine when... they're trained professionals who should be able to at least cope with someone describing what happened to them. I shouldn't worry about if the person whose job it is to listen to my story is mature enough to handle hearing it when I'm the one that needs their help.

at best, it's infantilizing because it assumes I'm not strong or mature enough to have another adult accurately describe what happened, and that's awful. at worst, I don't have much interest in seeking out services atp and I feel like I've been left to deal with it on my own, like I'm somehow so tainted that people don't even want to say the words, which is isolating and bad for so many reasons.

cantmakeyouloveme

junkyarded

so many people post like they are from the dimension of No Misogyny because the misogyny all around them just registers to them as fine and normal

junkyarded

we are all posting from the dimension of No Misandry because we live on the planet earth

wolpattinger

And apart!

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mangled-by-disuse

in happier pride news i actually found this deeply heartwarming

that's solidarity baybeeee

lgbtlaughs

Further context: Durham city council (Reform UK) cut funding and support for Pride. The Durham Miner's Association and other trade unions raised enough money for Durham Pride 2026 to go ahead - a direct call back to when Lesbian and Gays Support the Miners (LGSM) raised money for mining communities when Margaret Thatcher seized union funding during the miner strikes of 1984-85.

At the 1985 Labour party meet, the motion to support LGBT rights as a party was passed due to a block vote from mining unions.

Stephen Guy, the chair of the Durham Miners’ Association, said that when it became apparent Durham Pride was under threat, he took it upon himself to “encourage the trade union movement to step up and do the right thing, and stand shoulder to shoulder with the LGBT+ community […] They not only raised funds for us, but came to our communities, uplifted our spirits when they were down, and showed their solidarity.”

princess-lointaine

lirika matoshi

apostasy-is-ecstasy

I don't know how to tell you this but your body isn't separate from your "true self"

thelastonewaspokenfor

as a Christian i gotta tell you, it very much is separate

illalwaysbehere

Your religion is made up, and your opinions stupid.

gugumbathraw

Lashana Lynch in The Woman King (2022) dir. Gina Prince-Bythewood

#She was looking so good in this movie

kiefbowl

mondays are for slacking off cause I just got back from the weekend. tuesdays are also for slacking off cause I have to recover from monday.

kiefbowl

wednesdays? brother that's for slacking off

kronkk

Kief it’s Thursday what about today

kiefbowl

slacking off. because you need to treat yourself sometimes

kronkk

Thank you, I was feeling out of touch and needed a treat

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Alice Leczinska Lowe Ferguson (American, 1880 - 1951): The Desert Sanatorium (via Aspire Auctions)

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itsmistybitch-deactivated202605

These posts are sisters

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xxrie

That’s why you should never accept the excuse “Well it was a different time.” They knew it was wrong. They always knew.

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kiefbowl

it's funny that men undermine female politicians because you'd think men would love a little mommy state. obviously it's because men want power, but every day politicians prove that they're super for sale and wiling to barter their codified power away for money anyway, so idk let women take a shot at it and you all go back to subsistence farming or whatever your weirdo fantasy is. you can even do your favorite thing which is devalue the sector as it becomes female dominated. god knows, there are women who will say I'll do it for $30K for twice the work. let mommy run the senate!!!

laterkiss

if you could ignore everything abt me then im actually perfect

thevampirejade

Armand.

Also Lestat.

laterkiss

can everything be about me for once instead of the vampire almond or the vampire lostat

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