Ari the Lion

A slave is:

obedient;

respectful;

humble;

submissive;

well-presented;

punctual, and;

productive.

Ground Rules

1. Know your place.  Your Owner, other Dominant men, and all men less submissive than you, are your superiors. Even if you dislike them personally or disagree with what they say, you will acknowledge their superiority at all times.

This does not mean doing anything you are told by anyone, but it does mean raising any objections in a respectful way; check with your Owner if in doubt.

2. It’s HIS decision. You may query an order if you need to find out more information or you need to make sure your Owner knows all the facts. You don’t get to disobey or ignore an order on the grounds that you think you know better. Your Owner always knows better than you.

3. Bulk up, boy. Go to the gym as often as possible, work out hard, take your supplements. The more muscle you have, the more valuable a piece of meat you are to your Owner.

4. Slaves don’t cum. Your cock should be locked in its cage for every moment that it’s practical. Whenever it’s not practical, hands off it! The purpose of all sexual and bdsm activities is the pleasure and amusement of your superiors. You can touch your cock to clean it, put it in its cage, or if told to touch it by your Owner. You cannot touch it to pleasure yourself.

The cage will always be worn when you’re engaged in any sexual activity with another man. The one exception is your current vanilla partner. Even in this situation, you will only orgasm if that is his express wish. You will make it clear that cumming is not your preferred option.

You’ll report any orgasm to your Owner for him to decide if you obeyed this rule.

5. Total. Submissive. Bottom. Firstly, stop all pretence of being in any way sexually versatile. Superiors fuck, you get fucked. You pleasure their cocks with your holes. Secondly, you never, ever attempt to dominate another man. Your fundamental nature is completely submissive - be true to it always.

Your Owner can decide who gets to use you, when and how.

6. Wear your collar. Wear visible evidence of your slavery wherever and whenever possible. The chain and lock should be worn whenever it is unlikely to seriously upset those around you, cause a work problem or place you in harm’s way.

You will wear the chain and lock as a rule, removing it as the exception. You’ll report the exceptions to your Owner for him to decide whether it really needed to be removed.

7. Make it obvious. In addition to your chain, you’ll dress in ways that draw attention to your body and accentuate your status as a muscle-jock slave. If in doubt, go for slutty. When possible, go for fetish. In short, do everything you can to make it easy for superior men to sexually objectify you and identify you as the submissive muscle slut you are.

The exceptions to this are situations where dressing this way would cause undue upset to your friends or family, or risk your employment. Report exceptions to your Owner so he can decide if they’re genuine or not.

8. Slaves have tits. Take any and every opportunity to encourage superior men - both strangers and open-minded friends - to play with them. 

Make your tits grow, but keep them sensitive and supple. Take proper care of them.

9. You will change. You will cooperate with your Owner to change you in physical and mental ways that make you a better slave. Some changes may be temporary, some will not be. You may become a dumb beast fit only for menial labour, sex, pain and entertainment by the time this process is done, never doubt that is a good thing for you to be.

Humiliation public and private, physical trials, hypnotic conditioning, new rules governing behaviour more closely, or more subtle manipulation may play a part. Embrace this process, accept its inevitability - and cooperate fully. Suggest to your Owner anything you think would help make you more humble and less human.

Sub drop is a very real thing, and should not be taken lightly. It’s usually a period after an intense scene that the sub can feel very vulnerable, depressed and sometimes actually get sick. The best way to prevent it is by having a good aftercare given by the Dom, but that doesn’t always do the trick. It’s hard to go back to your normal life after you experienced something amazing, this is true for BDSM as well, and there is sometimes a Dom drop because of that.

Remember, BDSM is emotionally and physically demanding on everyone involved, take care of each other.

The best thing to do is talk to the Dom, even if they don’t own you, a quick call or text a few days after seeing how they feel and that the scene was good for them as well can do wonders, and in fact many Doms will check on the sub a few times, seeing everything is fine.

There are also a few things you can do for yourself: Take some time to think about your experience, process it, think of the good and bad parts and what can be improved next time, writing about it can help a lot, that way you have the memory preserved and not fade away.

Pampering yourself is a good idea, a hot beverage is good from deep warmth, comfort food and a hot bath can do wonders. Just relax and enjoy your body. Take care of brushing that you may received and just put some effort into yourself. A sub that takes care of themselves is always a good catch.

Have some solo fun, jerk off (if you can/allowed) and develop your sub skills, there is always something you can do to be a better sub, it might also be comforting to involve yourself in your kinks. Stepping abruptly from BDSM might be a bit of a shock.

Do anything else that you usually do when feeling down: hit the gym hard, work harder, go shopping, cuddle with someone (pets included), hang out with friends, and just find your happy place.

Always try to be aware of what is happening to you, feeling down after a great scene is very very normal, and it’s fine! It will pass soon enough! So don’t worry!

Also, if you are in a big drop, try not to rush into another scene, it might help, but being emotionally unstable is never a good thing in BDSM.

I hope this helped a bit,

Play safe and have a great day!

“I want to suck your cock,” he said in a low voice. I could barely hear him over the air conditioning unit blowing behind me.

“Please, Sir, can I suck your cock?” he said, louder this time. It was one of those perfect moments. The AC unit behind me stopped, and the women at the end of the pool had paused their chatter. It was loud enough that even the maintenance man across the pool heard it loud and clear.  Despite his tan, I saw his entire body blush.

I wear leg cuffs now at all times. They are not removed. This marks my first “Transitional Point” from occasional prisoner to actual house slave. 

There are two more stages in this transition. The first is to wear my wrist cuffs constantly. The final one is to put on a thick metal collar to replace my chain collar. 

Five days in, I feel very … humbled. I was already wearing chains on a regular basis, but there were periods of time when I was completely unrestrained, periods that felt like a break from this. Without any breaks at all, it drives home very clearly what I am becoming. There are no moments when I can think, “Right now, not restrained, is real, and everything else is a really intense game.”

(via lprboomer)

AMEN!  It is the sub’s responsibility to show submission to its Owner always.

It’s your role to make sure your man is turned on and eager to get into your mouth, so show some enthusiasm. Don’t just pull out my half-hard cock and stick it in your mouth. Caress it through my pants, rub your face against my bulge, look up at me and tell me how much you want to taste it. Unzip me slowly and admire the thick heft of my cock straining to get out of my underwear. Pull it out and slap it across your cheek. Lick it softly and tell me how it tastes.

When you start sucking, remember your technique. I want to feel your lips and tongue and the inside of your throat, I definitely don’t want to feel your teeth.

When I ask you a question, I want to hear an answer. If I ask you how my cock feels in your throat, I expect to hear back “It feels so big and warm inside me, Sir” or whatever you are feeling, not just an incoherent moan, or worse, no response at all. I shouldn’t be the only one putting the effort into the dirty talk. And if I ask you a question while my cock is jammed down your throat, it’s because I want you to try to answer anyways. It feels damn good to have your throat-muscles straining around my cock as you try to answer. You can call me “Sir” or “Boss” or “Daddy” or “Papi” or “my horse-hung fuck-stud;” whatever works for you, just pick something and run with it.

I don’t care if you gag, as long as you don’t let it stop you from servicing my meat. Your gag reflex is your problem, don’t try to make it mine. In fact, if you’re not giving me enough feedback and stimulation, I will deliberately try to make you gag. It feels good to have your throat-cunt spasming on my cock, trying to force me out. Every bit of spit and throat-slime you cough up is just more lube for me to fuck your neck with. If you puke, I expect you to wipe it up and jam my cock back in there.

When I’m really fucking your throat, you will let me set the rhythm. I’m the top, and I know how to fuck your throat until it cums, so you’ll have to learn to time your breathing to my thrusts. I’ll let you breathe, but it’s going to have to be on my schedule. At this point, your throat belongs to me entirely. If I decide to pull my cock out and explore your throat with my fingers instead, you will suck them just the same. By now your neck is completely turned into a cunt, meant for me to fuck.

i told you earlier this week in this blog that i had mistakenly disobeyed my Master’s orders and He administered Icy Hot to my balls for punishment.

Now He has also revoked my self cum privileges. In the past i was allowed to cum at will then pay my cum tax.  Now, i must get his permission in advance.  In addition, he has DOUBLED my cum tax. He doesn’t allow mistakes or disobedience whatsoever without punishment (nor should he).  i really feel He is slowly turning the screws down on me as he gets more Intimidating.  i respect that very much from this Young Man.  He has a job of making me of better use and benefit to him and charges on!  He is a Real Man on a mission.

He did let me cum last night as i told Him my nuts were aching over all the edging i had been doing. That was a costly cum, but i was desperate and He knew it.  

Next week is what i call a “one-two punch” week.  Fag Tax due (every) Monday and Fag Fees due on the next day (He has those scheduled on the 1st and 15th of each month).  It’s going to be tough because these back to back payment weeks are designed to pretty much wipe me out financially.  His motto ”faggots should have just enough money to pay bills and meekly survive”.  He drills into my head that faggots must sacrifice for Real Men.  i’m living that and continually look for ways to live leaner to give Him more.  He deserves that.  I am a faggot. He is my Superior.

“As the mill wheel grinds, so comes creation from destruction.”

i told you earlier this week in this blog that i had mistakenly disobeyed my Master’s orders and He administered Icy Hot to my balls for punishment.

Now He has also revoked my self cum privileges. In the past i was allowed to cum at will then pay my cum tax.  Now, i must get his permission in advance.  In addition, he has DOUBLED my cum tax. He doesn’t allow mistakes or disobedience whatsoever without punishment (nor should he).  i really feel He is slowly turning the screws down on me as he gets more Intimidating.  i respect that very much from this Young Man.  He has a job of making me of better use and benefit to him and charges on!  He is a Real Man on a mission.

He did let me cum last night as i told Him my nuts were aching over all the edging i had been doing. That was a costly cum, but i was desperate and He knew it.  

Next week is what i call a “one-two punch” week.  Fag Tax due (every) Monday and Fag Fees due on the next day (He has those scheduled on the 1st and 15th of each month).  It’s going to be tough because these back to back payment weeks are designed to pretty much wipe me out financially.  His motto ”faggots should have just enough money to pay bills and meekly survive”.  He drills into my head that faggots must sacrifice for Real Men.  i’m living that and continually look for ways to live leaner to give Him more.  He deserves that.  I am a faggot. He is my Superior.

“As the mill wheel grinds, so comes creation from destruction.”

A feeder (via

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