Ardorotica

Don’t worry about it. All we need to do is simply instruct you to kneel and gingerly kiss our sweet butts, and you’ll then be shorter than us.

To all my submissive followers; don't be fooled by this type of messages. Literally no one who approches you this way is worthy of your submission. Ignoring and blocking their ignorant ass in the way to go.

I’m personally not a fan of financial domination so I shut it down pretty quick.

Guys, while it is possible that a female dominant will approach you out of the blue it’s kinda unlikely. If an unknown woman approaches you on kik, Twitter, tumblr or whatever be suspicious.

Fuck unpopular opinions. I am a gentle Domme, and damn proud to be one.

Actually, yeah!

You seem rather scandalized.

girl and guy were sitting on the same chair with the guy behind her only he was hugging her waist and fast asleep on her shoulder while she was working on her computer

saw this couple across the street from me waiting for the bus. the guy did the thing where he pretends to look for something in his bag and pulls out a finger heart instead

in the hallway i watched this girl run up to her bf and he gives her the biggest hug and goes “see told you you’d kill your presentation” then kisses her forehead

girl sitting next to me in the library has been grinding on an assignment all day (like i’d have been in the library from 10-3 with breaks in between for classes but she’d been sitting there the whole time) and her boyfriend would come in every few hours, put down food or coffee on her table, kiss the top of her head, and walk away without a word

in one of my smaller classes (probably around 30 people) this guy’s phone rang and he sprung up and left the class to answer it. usually profs don’t care if you leave class but this one is really small and he knows all of our names/faces, so when the guy comes back in the prof asks if everything was ok. he has the biggest grin on his face and says “yeah, sorry that was my girlfriend. her flight took off right before it started snowing so i was worried. she’s okay tho.”

I’ll just do this as a PSA:

If you want to be pegged here are some steps.

1) Do some solo anal play, get used to the feeling

2) Get a strap

3) Find someone who also is kinky and build a deep meaningful relationship founded on respect and trust

Dear Jeff,

Dear Tumblr @staff ,

I’ve read your new guidelines with great interest and care and I must say you’ve missed a huge opportunity to become a leader in Internet community safety.

Let me explain:

First of all, as an adult and a parent I wholeheartedly applaud your efforts in making Tumblr a place where minors can explore the Internet in a safe environment. You have my full support in banning any and all form of child pornography! So in all sincerity kudos to you for taking this step.

Having said that, as a parent, I know all too well how forbidding a certain toy/food/activity to my offspring will turn it into a forbidden fruit. Coming down on my kids like a maddening fury yelling they’re not allowed to do drugs for example is by no means a guarantee they won’t end up with a needle in their arm. Harsh, I know, yet a reality nonetheless.

The same applies to sexuality in all it shapes and forms. Taking all adult content away form Tumblr will only push all these curious youngsters to go and explore elsewhere and we all know the Internet showcases fucked up stuff!

Also, trust me when I say my young teenage offspring has quite the sexual imagination already.

Turning sex and/or nudity into a taboo is not helping my offspring. Talking to them however is, answering any and all questions they have is.

Secondly, I’m a proud member of the BDSM community here on Tumblr, have been for over 2 years.

In my time on here I’ve seen and discovered this community is very protective of itself; abusers and/or wannabes are called out, numerous child pornography blogs have been reported.

There’s a whole community online of people, both Dominants and submissives alike, with up to 40 years of experience that share their knowledge, that take new people under their wing, that openly demonstrate the difference between porn BDSM and real life relationships.

New, curious people - when of legal age - were all welcomed with open arms by all of us. An insane amount of questions have been answered, advice and guidance have been offered freely to anyone who genuinely wanted to explore the BDSM world.

Now, now you’re pushing all these new aspiring dominants/submissives into uncharted territory! Safe, Sane and Consensual has been thrown out of the window for the BDSM community.

What I wanted, hell what every single one of my followers wanted, was to get rid of the porn bots! What we wanted was to get rid of the child pornography.

What we wanted was a safe environment for all of us.

What we’re left with is a whole lot of the opposite. Making Tumblr Safe Again has made the whole Internet an even more unsafer place.

What you could, and should have done, is reach out to the blogs with the largest follower base, made an open invitation to any and all smaller blogs who wanted to help you make Tumblr a safer place. Yes, we should have been vetted amidst this process. No, no one would have objected.

I’m beyond disappointed Tumblr. What started as an no doubt good and spot on idea has left a very bad taste in my mouth.

Sincerely,

Querido Jeff

Estimado Tumblr @staff ,

He leído sus nuevas pautas con gran interés y cuidado y debo decir que ha perdido una gran oportunidad de convertirse en un líder en seguridad de la comunidad de Internet.

Dejame explicar:

En primer lugar, como adulto y padre, aplaudo de todo corazón sus esfuerzos por hacer de Tumblr un lugar donde los menores puedan explorar Internet en un entorno seguro. ¡Tienes todo mi apoyo para prohibir cualquier tipo de pornografía infantil! Así que con toda sinceridad te felicito por dar este paso.

Dicho esto, como padre, sé muy bien cómo prohibir un determinado juguete / comida / actividad a mi descendencia lo convertirá en una fruta prohibida. Derribar a mis hijos como una furia enloquecedora que grita que no se les permite consumir drogas, por ejemplo, no es una garantía de que no terminarán con una aguja en el brazo. Duro, lo sé, pero una realidad no obstante.

Lo mismo se aplica a la sexualidad en todas sus formas y formas. Retirar todo el contenido para adultos de Tumblr solo empujará a todos estos jóvenes curiosos a ir a explorar otros lugares y todos sabemos que Internet muestra cosas jodidas.

Además, confía en mí cuando digo que mi joven hijo adolescente ya tiene bastante imaginación sexual.

Convertir el sexo y / o la desnudez en un tabú no está ayudando a mi descendencia. Sin embargo, hablar con ellos es responder a todas y cada una de las preguntas que tienen.

En segundo lugar, soy un miembro orgulloso de la comunidad BDSM aquí en Tumblr, lo he sido por más de 2 años.

En mi tiempo aquí, he visto y descubierto que esta comunidad es muy protectora de sí misma; se denuncia a los abusadores y / o aspirantes, se han reportado numerosos blogs de pornografía infantil.

Hay toda una comunidad en línea de personas, tanto dominantes como sumisas, con hasta 40 años de experiencia que comparten sus conocimientos, que toman a las nuevas personas bajo su protección, que demuestran abiertamente la diferencia entre el BDSM porno y las relaciones de la vida real.

Todas las personas nuevas y curiosas, cuando eran mayores de edad, fueron recibidos con los brazos abiertos por todos nosotros. Se han respondido una cantidad increíble de preguntas, se han ofrecido consejos y orientación libremente a cualquiera que realmente quiera explorar el mundo BDSM.

¡Ahora, ahora estás empujando a todos estos nuevos aspirantes a dominantes / sumisos a un territorio desconocido! Safe, Sane and Consensual ha sido arrojado por la ventana para la comunidad BDSM.

¡Lo que quería, lo que querían todos mis seguidores, era deshacerse de los bots porno! Lo que queríamos era deshacernos de la pornografía infantil.

Lo que queríamos era un ambiente seguro para todos nosotros.

Lo que nos queda es todo lo contrario. Hacer que Tumblr sea seguro nuevamente ha convertido a Internet en un lugar aún más inseguro.

Lo que podría, y debería haber hecho, es llegar a los blogs con la mayor base de seguidores, hizo una invitación abierta a todos los blogs más pequeños que quisieran ayudarlo a hacer de Tumblr un lugar más seguro. Sí, deberíamos haber sido examinados en medio de este proceso. No, nadie se habría opuesto.

Estoy más que decepcionado Tumblr. Lo que comenzó como una idea sin duda buena y acertada me dejó un mal sabor de boca.

Sinceramente,

I’m not endorsing Apple’s censorship policy or Tumblr for implimenting it. I produce adult content and companies like these are making it impossible for me to earn an honest living.

But you have to look at what really happened. Apple held Tumblr out of a window by the neck and told them to remove the content or die.