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so many people have inspired me to be nothing like them

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unfortunately iâm a person who takes words very seriously, so yes iâll remember every little things you've said about me, whether if it's good or bad, it will stay in my mind for a very long time.
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THIS
Guys be hurting the girls they dreamt of being with
yall find everything weird besides the shit you do.
I love seeing women be strategic, self-interested, financially aware, socially intelligent, emotionally detached enough to choose themselves for once instead of endlessly sacrificing themselves for everyone else. We are raised from birth to over-give, over-nurture, over-accommodate, over-explain, over-empathize and then the second a woman becomes intentional about what she wants, suddenly people start clutching their pearls about morality.
Centuries of documented, systematic, institutional abuse (emotional, physical, sexual, financial, legal) and we are supposed to feel guilty about a woman who figured out how to make the dynamic work in her favor for once. Absolutely not. The same systems that denied women the right to own property, to have bank accounts in their own names, to leave marriages without losing their children, to work without their husbandâs permission, to press charges against the men who hurt them, to be believed when they spoke. These systems were built by men and maintained by men and benefited men for so long that the current generation of women is still navigating the residue of them in their daily lives. So when a woman uses what she has to extract resources, security, opportunity, or simply a more comfortable life, I genuinely cannot locate the moral problem. I have looked. It is not there.
I have very limited moral outrage left for women who manipulate, leverage relationships, marry strategically or otherwise use the systems available to them to secure wealth, status, comfort, or protection. Men built entire legal, financial and social systems around benefiting themselves and locking women out of stability, wealth, autonomy, credibility and safety and somehow Iâm supposed to collapse in moral horror because a woman decided to secure the lifestyle she wanted through marriage, charm, strategy, proximity, whatever?
I actually think more women should stop feeling ashamed for wanting comfort, security, access, luxury, protection, influence or an easier life. Men have pursued those things openly and unapologetically forever. If a woman is smart enough to leverage beauty, charm, social skill, networking, marriage, desirability, or proximity to power to improve her life, Iâm not sitting here calling her evil. I think sheâs playing the game right.

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Stop doing out of character things to teach someone a lesson or try to âget even.â It doesnât prove a point, it just pulls you out of alignment with who you are. I wonât do anything out of character to prove a point to their disrespect. Iâm not matching anyoneâs trash energy or try to prove a point or anything to someone who disrespects me. Thatâs just too close to proving myself to someone who already showed me is beneath me
A person with good values can you see your worth even if they canât reach it. And they act accordingly or leave respectfully. Really need you guys to understand this
Once a person disrespects you, lowering yourself to their level just shows youâre willing to abandon your standards to match their behavior. And the moment you do that, you blur the line between what you tolerate and what you become
Real power isnât in retaliation. Itâs in restraint, clarity, and boundaries. Itâs in being so grounded in your standards that disrespect doesnât provoke you, it disqualifies them
You donât teach people how to treat you by acting like them. You teach them by what you allow, what you ignore, and what you walk away from. If a person doesnât treat you how you treat them or deserve to be treated, you leave. âEasier said than done.â Not really
It only feels hard when youâre more attached to the person than you are to your standards. When you are looking for love outside of yourself, because youâre not giving it to yourself. When you start valuing your peace, your self respect, and your time more than temporary connection, the decision becomes extremely clear. If it doesnât feel that way, then youâre just not at the place with yourself I am describing. Because it indeed becomes extremely clear
Youâre not losing them. Youâre choosing yourself
And thatâs the standard. You should never lower or lose yourself to keep anyone
Healthy people will never understand what a massive achievement it is to do your laundry AND cook yourself a meal in one day.
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