Archduke Grand

When the brain fog kicks in..

Mayhem is at her first physical therapy appointment and I guess they're gonna shoot lasers at my cat

When she develops super powers it's over for all of us

I sent this photo to my coworkers/secretary to explain why I'm not in the office this morning, and when I walked in this afternoon:

the understanding that I would be immediately, irreversibly marked for a lifetime of misogyny and hostility chilled me out of pursuing transition for years, and I'm not the only woman I know who has said the same. we are well aware of what we're getting into and we know it's not something that can ever be undone. we've seen all our lives how poorly women (and especially trans woman) are treated. but we are women, so our choice is to accept the reality of womanhood or die. painting us as naively grasping at a surface-level idea of womanhood denies our interiority as people and our existence as women.

The worst types of cookbook:

*small service bell ringing*