We're Here to Fight Shikra

Alright. As you can see, a variety of ableist, homophobic, and violent slurs are used. Let’s begin with the c slur.

This is a sexist term. If you’d like to know why, I pulled something up that I think explains it well:

“The fact that it [cunt] is a woman’s genitalia and acknowledged to be the most insulting swear word in the English language simply means that to really insult someone you call them, in effect, a woman. Says it all about the status of women doesn’t it?”

Moving on. The r slur. This is an ableist term. I honestly don’t know how to put this into words, so I’m going to pull up the best thing I could find:

“Retarded means slow. Mentally retarded is a common diagnosis when referring to someone who has an intellectual disability. People who have intellectual disabilities are people who have dreams, families, jobs, lives and in some cases - spouses and children. They are not any less of a human being than someone who has a genius level IQ.

Having any disability isn’t easy. No one asked to have a disability but lives life the best they can with what they have. To have someone say ‘retard’ as a put down or meaning something not good or ridiculous - is the ultimate slap in the face. You never know who can hear you and everyone has feelings.

Words have meaning. If you’re trying to say that something you did or said is silly or not your best thinking - say something like, “Wow, what was I thinking?” But please do not put down someone’s disability that they have absolutely no control over.

Now that you know, it’s time to go and educate others about why we shouldn’t use the word 'retarded’ in a derogatory fashion.”

“Cracker” is a term that should never be used. In the past, it was used to refer to the white people who whipped slaves. It should never be used to refer to someone, especially when the person isn’t even white.

The Q slur is a slur, whether you like it or not. I don’t care who the fuck you’re talking to. You don’t use an umbrella term that is commonly used as a violent slur. 

And finally, for the slurs, the d slur. What the fuck. The word dyke is a lesbophobic slur. It is not okay, under any circumstances, to use a lesbophobic violent slur. 

And don’t even get me started on the constant “Go kill yourself”-type posts made. This is not okay. The use of multiple violent ableist, sexist, and lesbophobic slurs is not okay, and should not be treated as such.

And though we did have doubts about kit and lightflame being the ones who ran the blog, we did not hesitate to check if it were true.

Night asked me if I was abusivewckininme and I said no. She then hounded me with several accusations that made me uncomfortable and she took that as evidence and dragged out our drama until I ASKED NIGHT if we could talk this out.

But with the wckinincestships blog. Though we believed the names that we were given. We discussed this in the chat and came to the conclusion that this cannot be true because sideblogs cannot IM someone. I talked to the blog immediately and found it was abusivewckininme. My friends talked to both terfashfur and lightflame and they said no, there was no hounding them to see if they were lying. I spread the word about the misunderstanding and had it resolved in less than a day.

Your comparison falls flat because unlike night, I put EFFORT into the drama I was in. I my doubts and didn’t think the evidence was good enough, because this is exactly what Night took as her “legitimate” evidence. I discussed this and I ended it before it got out of hand because unlike night I don’t wait this shit out and use my followers and friends to protect me from criticism from my half assed investigation.

You guys, irlgardendiagnostic and frillious, decided to post shit accusing lightflame and kit of being behind the account. This came before the “im gonna kill someone” stuff. You guys decided to just accuse them based on the words of an obvious troll blog, Don’t’t fucking lie.

You bashed her for posting a private conversation. You cannot bash someone for doing something and then turn around and do it, just because the person did it first. That’s so fucking childish.

Several of my accusations have been proven false? Nah, it’s just you making petty excuses, “oh, i’m mentally ill,” and acting like you’re the only mentally ill person in the situation. You trigger suicidal people by telling them to kill themselves. Get over yourself. If you honestly believe you have every right to tell suicidal people to kill themselves, then don’t ever fucking complain about being triggered. 

And you have the nerve, the fucking GALL to use my anger and frustration that I’m abusive?

1) What do you mean when did nightfrostfeather stalk and harassed me???????

So repeatedly checking on my blog and making updates (that are either included in her so called “callouts”) and reblogging from me several times despite me not wanting her to do that isn’t harassment?

2) she has demanded me to give her clear and concise answers because it was proven several times that she will blow up and jump to conclusions if I don’t give an answer she wants.

I wanted to talk to her to end drama. And hell, if she expects me to get out of my comfort zone to talk to her about something That she assumes about me.

You wanted to “talk to her” and “end the drama”, did you? Sure, you might have, but you threatened someone into making a decision they were uncomfortable with to get your way. That is not okay, under any circumstances She didn’t want to speak to you, but you had to get your way, so you resorted to threatening her into making a choice. Thats not okay. I understand your intent, but the way you attempted to achieve your goal was abusive, and not okay.

1) What do you mean when did nightfrostfeather stalk and harassed me???????

So repeatedly checking on my blog and making updates (that are either included in her so called “callouts”) and reblogging from me several times despite me not wanting her to do that isn’t harassment?

2) she has demanded me to give her clear and concise answers because it was proven several times that she will blow up and jump to conclusions if I don’t give an answer she wants.

I wanted to talk to her to end drama. And hell, if she expects me to get out of my comfort zone to talk to her about something That she assumes about me.

You wanted to “talk to her” and “end the drama”, did you? Sure, you might have, but you threatened someone into making a decision they were uncomfortable with to get your way. That is not okay, under any circumstances She didn’t want to speak to you, but you had to get your way, so you resorted to threatening her into making a choice. Thats not okay. I understand your intent, but the way you attempted to achieve your goal was abusive, and not okay.