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This is a list of all my kinks, hard limits (things I never want and am not into) and soft limits (things I could sometimes be into under specific circumstances but am sometimes or often uncomfortable with). You’re free to interact with me even if you’re into and post about my hard limits (unless it’s one stated in the DNI on my pinned post), but please do not reblog one of my posts and add my hard limits onto it. Do not message me or send me asks or requests that are to do with my hard limits. I’m also a sub leaning switch and have different kinks I’m into when subbing and domming, which I mostly want to sub and only get the urge to dom on rare occasions or if the other person was to ask me to dom and started acting submissive. My hard limits can also be triggers for me so I don’t even like reading content with those in.

*means only in fantasy either because the idea of it happening in real life is a hard limit for me but i can sometimes enjoy the fantasy or it, or it’s impossible for that to happen in real life

Kinks (as a sub)

praise kink (being called ‘good boy’, being told i’m being good for you, saying that you’ll take care of me, reassurance)

petnames (sweetheart, darling, love, pretty boy, my prince, little prince, baby boy, doll, babydoll, bonus points for gender affirming names)

size difference / size kink

cockwarming (more specifically oral cockwarming)

oral fixation (having things in my mouth to suck on: cock, toys, fingers)

being bitten and biting

choking (with hands or a collar/choker being tightened)

breathplay (being told to hold my breath, and ^ the above)

chokers, collars, leashes

daddy kink (using that word for my dom but i am not into ddlb or abdl. the ‘daddy’ word can exist outside of those kinks. it’s the only dom word i’m comfortable using.)

having my afab genitalia referred to as a ‘cock’ / the terms ‘boy cock’ ‘boy pussy’ ‘boy cunt’

manhandling

being pinned down (but no actual restraints eg handcuffs, rope)

vampire kink

royalty kink / regency kink

soft possessiveness

soft dom / gentle dom / service top

voice kink / dirty talk

light pet play (as in: chokers, being called puppy as i do get into a pup sub headspace, tail, ears, collars, leashes. but NO masks, suits, hoods, mitts, cages, being made to eat out of a bowl and that level of roleplay)

monsters / monsterfucker*

robotfucker*

virgin sacrifice*

virginity kink / deflowering (i’m a virgin and not experienced in irl sex in any way and write about this kink in order to still feel desirable and i’ve been made to feel undesirable for this. i’m not trying to degrade actual virgins or people who aren’t virgins, which i’ve been accused of doing.)

hypnosis

hand kink

gloves (leather/pleather)

mask kink, armour kink (dom wearing them)

Soft Limits (as a sub)

calling a dom sir/master/mommy

anal

being asked to look at you / look in your eyes / remove my hands from my face (can be okay if i’m deep enough into a sub space to not care, but it’s iffy, i wouldn’t risk it unless i say it’s okay)

being asked / forced to talk (i often go nonverbal and can’t control it)

using the words sir, master, mommy for a dom

somnophilia

light feminization (not misgendering)

breeding kink (but not pregnancy / impregnation. dirty talk using the term breeding is fine, but not mentioning getting pregnant)

overstimulation

heirophilia*

abo / omegaverse*

light objectification

pussy spanking*

dumbification

edging

Hard Limits (as a sub)

degradation

humiliation

punishment / threats / threats of punishment / implying that i could be bad

spanking

bdsm (enjoy dom/sub, don’t enjoy sadomasicism or bondage or discipline) 

voyeurism / being asked to touch myself while you watch  (both being watched and watching others)

coming inside during vaginal penetration / talk of it (fine with it in fantasy/sexting/dirty talk, but not fine with it actually happening or any vaginal penetration done without a condom)

using the words mistress, mummy to refer to a dom

misgendering/detransition kink

sissy / sissification / forced feminisation

playing with my chest and/or nipples / referring to my chest and/or nipples

bondage / being tied up / being handcuffed / shibari (even if its decorative/sfw)

blindfolds

pain play (any sort of hitting, whipping, slapping, torture, spanking)

slurs, insults and degrading names (includes ‘slut’)

pregnancy / impregnation

exhibitionism

master/slave

dehumanisation / objectification

more extreme pet play (hoods, suits, cages, bsdm training)

sexual ageplay / abdl / ddlx (i experience age regression so i don’t like seeing that stuff sexualised)

drugs & alcohol / being drunk

piss (being pissed on/in)

scat

vomit

extreme body modification

public use / free use

cnc / consensual-non-consent

electricity

wax play

medical play / dentist play

piercing

cervix penetration

knife play

gun play

gore / guro

child birth / birthing kink

feederism 

group sex / orgies

casual sex / hookups / sex with strangers 

sex clubs / fetish clubs / dungeons / group kink settings

spitting / spit kink

food play / food kink / using food during sex

Kinks (as a dom)

begging

biting

vampire kink

royalty kink / regency kink

daddy kink (as in being called daddy)

referring to myself and being called male/masc dom title: sir, daddy, my liege, my lord, your grace, master

having my strap sucked while i’m wearing it

pegging (when is it called pegging? i’m a trans man who’d have to wear a strap to penetrate, but don’t mind what gender or what hole i’m penetrating)

piercings? (as in you having piercings, not the act of giving you/me piercings)

possessive dirty talk

decorating you, there’s not really a proper kink word for it but essentially dressing you up, putting chains and pearls and jewels on you, covering you in precious things

Soft Limits (as a dom)

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Hard Limits (as a dom)

bratting

degrading/humiliating/punishing my sub

bdsm, bondage, restraints

misgendering / detransition kink

pain play (extreme or not)

spanking / hitting (counts as pain play to me but doesn’t to others so hey here’s a separate bullet point)

extreme bdsm

free use / public use

cuckolding

sexual ageplay / abdl / ddlx

exhibitionism

voyeurism (both being watched and watching others)

drugs & alcohol / being drunk

piss 

scat

vomit

exhibitionism

cnc / consensual-non-consent

electricity

medical play

wax play

knife play

gun play

gore / guro

child birth / birthing kink

feederism

group sex / orgies

casual sex / hookups / sex with strangers 

sex clubs / fetish clubs / dungeons / group kink settings

spitting / spit kink

Well, you told me that fucking you dry hurts you. So I came up with a fun idea. You have sensitive udders and torturing your udders makes you wet.