❤️Annabeth Hope🌹

I Want You to Feel Loved

I worry often about how I come across in my captions and with my writings.  The last thing that I want is to be insensitive to a whole host of identities and varying lifestyle choices.  I trust that many of you are encouraged, but I also don’t want to be discouraging to someone else.  I also don’t want to sound like I’m just “full of crap”.  I desire to be genuine, which is strange because of my anonymity.  LOL.  Now, to ease any pity for me, nobody has ever said anything negatively toward me.  I just want to be more for all of you than another fantasy caption maker…and, of course, we love all of those girlies too! 

One of the driving forces behind my Tumblr page is love.  I want anybody to feel welcomed, seen, valued, and heard.  Yes, there are some sexy push-the-envelope captions, but for the sake of keeping my Tumblr “safe”, I gravitate more to the ideas of positivity and encouragement without images that NSFW.  I believe we all need more encouragement.  There’s a place and time for more elicit fantasies.  I know, because I enjoy that too–and quite frequently. But in the other hand (pun intended), we should want to be a reason that others feel loved.  We all need to know that we belong with some people, that we have a greater sense of value, and that we have something to offer.

We should want to be givers: givers of self, givers of love.  Be a reason that someone feels loved.

It’s Just Good…Period

Women tend to live longer than men.  That might seem like the perfect reason for a man to be womanly, but there’s obviously more to do with it than the way we dress, act, or perhaps change our body parts.  I doubt that anyone has ever come to a clear reason why women average longer lives.  Suggestions have been anywhere from work-load, to tensions, to testosterone vs oestrogen, to height and weight, to habits, etc.  I am not capable of sharing a medical opinion, so I’ll leave it to the experts.

What I am capable of doing for you, however, is making a suggestion based on my own experience with health, both of body and mind.  Though I’ve been a crossdresser most of my life, it wasn’t until later in life that I preferred femininity, which goes far beyond clothing choices.  I like to think that deciding to be feminine (or at least more feminine) has led to healthier choices and peace of mind.  I make disciplined decisions about the foods I eat.  I exercise for my health instead of training to be a bulkazoid.  I’m cautious about certain strains on my physical body too. Much of this has aided me in developing tranquility and having a greater connection to my whole being.  I believe in holistic integration of self.  That means, in my own thinking, to be in harmony in body and mind.  Having such a harmonious spirit can’t help but to create healthy dividends across life’s accounts.  All the girly clothing, then, becomes an expression of that level of health, and all without without losing its fun appeal–perhaps it enhances it.

Maybe you have been testing a lot of the serene waters of femininity.  Perhaps you have been crossdressing for the taboo allure of it.  Could it be that the “sissy” fetish/culture is arousing to you?  You’re somewhere on some girly spectrum or you wouldn’t be reading this.  If by chance, you’re transitioning, I doubt this advice goes well for you.  You’re on a different spectrum of beauty, but perhaps there is some value for you.  Nonetheless, can I offer this simple word of advice for you? Decide to be feminine.  You won’t regret making such a subtle change to your body and mind because it can truly transform your whole being.  And for that reason, it can be good for your health, even as, or especially as, you continue as a pantied boy. 

If that doesn’t convince you, however, then perhaps I can be less wordy, less technical, and more casual: It just feels right.  It just feels right, for the right person (maybe you) to be immersed in some range of femininity. 

Let’s get girly!