ANITAKINYI

I've been fine the whole week but now I have a sore throat that appeared out of the cream white.

I'd normally blame my lack of productivity on procrastination but today.. I have a reason.

Bro's been single for years. So I asked him what he's looking for in a woman. He said:

Cooprerative

This I get. Any partner wants someone that they can talk things through and get to an established answer so that things can happen, smoothly, in the union that they are forming. So yeah.. I get it.

Fit

Yes. I don't want you to die before me or for things that we could prevent. Sounds selfish but a person also wants to spend more time with you. Also, hospital bills are a bitch.

Feminine

This one got me stumped. Every time I think of this word, I think of how hollywood protrays woman and that's not nessasarily what woman are like. But he assured me that he was not looking at that. When I asked him to explain, he said "not masculine". I proceeeded to tell him that that does not answer the question, it makes it more confusing, for me. I was not trying to be difficult, I was just trying to see where his head was with this and he didn't even know either.

So I carried on, "do you mean sexy with nail polish and heels all day?", he said "no" then asked me "what do you think of when I say 'woman'?".. I said "Breasts, womb" then he laughed and asked "just the biology?" and I nodded my head.

You can't go around saying feminine, just like you can't go around saying masculine. I thought this was old news but to my bro this is "normal" (for the lack of a better word).

I'm only challenging this because, like many other woman, I've got a bit of both. Also, in my thinking, you're a better human being if you do have a bit of both 'masculine' and 'feminine' energy.

Now he's got me watching Kevin Samuels videos to try explain what he obviously refuses to try understand himself.