Apr 28, 2015
messessentialist:
no yknow what fuck the entire concept of virginity
fuck the idea that a woman is only good or worthy if she hasn’t had sex
fuck the idea that this one quality that can make a woman worthy can be “taken” from her by or “lost” by her to a man
fuck the idea that sex is a rite of passage for men but the end of innocence for women
fuck the entire gross fetishization of the ‘pure’ virgin female and the competition among men to be the one to ‘ruin’ her
women are not a commodity for men to defile
we are not defined by the way men have or have not touched us
and we certainly do not need to deprive ourselves of intimacy and pleasure with people we feel close to just so that some day, some man might see us as more valuable for it
