once you stop fantasizing about that ideal version of yourself and start working towards becoming that person by setting your alarm clock earlier and actually going to the gym and actually volunteering at places and actually eating healthier and not procrastinating and working just a little bit harder you’ll realize that it was so easy all along. becoming your ideal self will only ever exist in your mind until you make the decision to work towards becoming that person. get up!! get going!! it’s now or never!! there is no light at the end of the tunnel!! get that flashlight and pave your own path bitch bc no one else is going to do it for u!!

Why are men

so cute? man idk

it’s absolutely hilarious in a pathetic way that none of these notes have anything good to say but if this post said “why are women” every one would be like “so BEAUTIFUL AND AMAZING” like god tumblr is cringe

this reminded me of something. I noticed on many platforms that there always people who are against you just talking about therapy as an option to someone who might be suffering but they are never able to just say it in a clear comprehensive manner and some of them go as far as to just say random insult words. I’m sorry to be the one to say this but: if seeing someone giving advice of thinking about going to therapy to someone else who might be suffering is that annoying to you: you might really be in need of learning some ways to deal with your feelings and thoughts.

It’s only recently I’ve started seeing just how cruel and abusive you were (from what limited memories I even have). Thanks to you, I don’t know if I’m dealing with past trauma from you with the aid of a loving significant other or if I’ve found a new abuser even more subtle than you. You’ve always laughingly said I turned bad at 3….what did I do to you? That from then on I stopped being your child and became your servant, to obey and serve silently. Even then I failed to meet your standards..

don’t date anyone who isn’t proud of you