If it gets awkward, let it be awkward. That awkwardness is something they created. You don’t owe anyone a performance of being okay when you are not feeling okay so that they can feel better about themselves. Jennifer Peepas

My childhood trauma didn't make me stronger. it made me a people pleaser. it made me forgive way too much. it made me not speak when i'm supposed to. it made me an extreme empath.

Manipulation is when they disturb your peace, provoke you, trigger your mental health, and then blame you for your negative reactions.

Don't ever lie to me, i understand a lot of shit, ain't no need to lie. be real with me, i respect honesty no matter how bad it is.

i like tumblr bc everyone ik irl thinks this shit completely died off so i can hide here and enjoy content in peace

Be easy with yourself. It all takes time.