Observations

I am a rape and incest survivor. I DO NOT want to be associated with or followed by anyone who thinks that form of behavior or gratification is acceptable.

I find it ironic and a bit hypocritical that they claim the patriarchy is the one that oppresses people and makes people decide to harm one another, yet an individual's choice to harm another person is defined by the experiences they have lived and the negative effects of those situations. We all make choices everyday and we all have to deal with controlling our impulses and some people decide to act on them.

It wasn't a political choice that my grandmother made to sexually abuse me as a little kid, as it also wasn't a political choice for my mom to physically, emotionally, and mentally abuse me as well. It was due to their lived experiences and unresolved trauma. Not because of an invisible system that holds everyone up by strings because of someone being manipulative towards women, like its a boogeyman.

I also find it vile how they treat people, like men and trans people, as if their lived experiences and character doesn't matter and treats them as "abusers or crazy" when these same people have no clue what those people have gone through in their life.

Yet they have the audacity to say that these certain people live in a cult or are manipulative. This is a typical form of projection from unresolved trauma and choosing not to heal by still living in the pain of the past and making it a weapon, and by doing so, they treat others as if they are an enemy rather than someone who they can be empathetic towards.

To end this note, as someone who is Trans, there were many years where I didn't realize it, and as a little kid who lived as a 'boy' during those years, I will say that boys and men are less as likely to speak up when they are abused due to social stigma's and personal fears as compared to their girl and women counterparts.

Felt like it was time to share my face :3