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She/Her

20yo

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You can yap to me as much as you want. Tell me your headcannons, fic ideas, whatever makes you happy.

If it's taking me too long to answer asks then that's because I need time to think about it, or because I'm busy. NOT because I didn't like your ask, all asks are welcome and they don't annoy me at all 🫶🏻

My fic's:

✅ = Finished

⏳= in progress

💤 = haven't started it yet

🔒= not posted yet.

Outliving you (Jondami) ✅

Either way, we're not alone (Jondami) ⏳

Sequel to outliving you (Jondami) ⏳🔒

Arranged marriage Au (Jondami) 💤

Rot (body horror) ✅

My Ao3

More:

Let's talk about Jondami (only adult versions please!)

Or Batfamily

Or Jon and Damian being best friends

This is mostly a Jondami account if that's not obvious by now 🪿

You guys, I have at least five asks just about sex in my inbox WHERE ARE YOUR PURE THOUGHTS??

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❗TW Self harm.❗

Yeah, to be honest, I was kind of projecting there 😅. I don't know if a Damian who is close to canon would actually self-harm. Given his backstory, it would be realistic, but something about his personality makes me question it a bit. I mean, there definitely is a form of self harm going on, but nothing that leaves scars.

All in all, I think Damian's family would be reacting well to them being a couple, but Bruce has a few issues at first...

Everything between Jon and Damian is moving so fast since they’ve gotten together. They’ve known each other for so long that they don’t need those typical getting-to-know-you phases. On one hand, Bruce is extremely anxious about Damian getting his heart broken, on the other, he’s glad that the person Damian is in a relationship with is Jon— and not some anti hero with whom he’d have a toxic, on-off-relationship. Jon is warm, responsible, stable, and good. Bruce trusts him, it's just...he still sees Damian as that tiny, angry, terribly abused child who had been hurt so badly. And he doesn't want him to grow up and 'leave the nest'.

So when Damian at 19/20 years old wants to move out to live with Jon, Bruce is not happy about it.

Damian is still young.

Bruce only got a relatively short period where Damian was actually his kid at home. He feels like he hasn't had enough time.

So he and Damian fight. About everything, but not the real issue. About Damian abandoning his responsibilities in Gotham. About how it was a horrible idea to switch medical schools just because he wants to move out. How Damian was being irresponsible for impulsively wanting to move in with a guy he was only in a relationship with for a couple of months.

But over and over again Bruce gets reminded that... Damian is an adult now.

And Jon is a good person.

Or that they have known each other for nearly a decade.

Damian is happy.

He has people who love him.

He has a future beyond violence and missions.

The same Damian, who had slept with knives under his pillow and had nightmares almost every night. Who had been violent and full of fear, and had fought against being loved...

That same child was now talking about apartments and furniture.

About building a life.

A normal life.

A life Bruce always wanted for him.

A life Bruce had never quite believed Damian would get.

Heyy, sorry that it took me so long, a lot to do, plus I don't think I have weird headcanons? 😅

But here are some normal headcanons for older Jondami. Unfortunately some turned out a little sad again. Oh! And ❗TW self harm❗I guess... it's just a little bit tho and nothing explicit. 🪿

Damian and Jon haven't told Damian's family anything about their relationship for a long time because, months before anything actually happened between them, his siblings had already made insinuations that Damian vehemently denied...and now he is kinda embarrassed. Jon just finds it funny.

Sometimes, when Damian watches Jon change, his eyes narrow and he remarks on how unfair genetics are. Because Jon got really tall and all broad-shouldered, while Damian has remained relatively short and slim, (Damian is also very muscular and handsome but he has self-Image problems okay?) Jon doesn't get it, because he honestly believes Damian is the most beautiful person he has ever seen, and when he was younger, he was incredibly jealous of the way Damian looked.

Damian starts an argument every time he sees Jon microwaving water (they have a fucking electric kettle, he doesn't understand why Jon doesn't use it.)

Jon always carries Damian's stuff around.

They still play Minecraft together at 20 and 23.

Titus sleeps in the room with them, but the two of them can't get intimate as long as the dog is there— because they find it weird. But sometimes the dog refuses to get up and Damian can't bring himself to kick him out, so they have to go to the living room to it there....Jon loves Damian and the pets but it's getting on his nerves every time.

Damian loves sleeping on Jon. Kryptonian genes make him a bit warmer than ordinary humans. Damian usually struggles to fall asleep, but he is gone within minutes if he is allowed to sleep on Jon's chest. (He is always allowed.)

Jon knows every scar on Damian's body. He has counted them all. 58— by outside force. 20— self inflicted.

Since Damian started to work at the hospital, they don't see each other that often and Damian is out of the house really early. So Jon leaves sticky notes everywhere: "Good morning." "Drink water." "You are loved." "The animals are fed." "I made you breakfast, it's in the fridge." Or just random smile faces and hearts.

Jon absolutely destroys Damian at Mario Kart (it's a sensitive topic).

But it’s jondami ;)

PHAHAH I read cock for a moment and I was so confused.

I actually have my own headcanon for this! Damian definitely does the cooking. I think they’d have an arrangement where Damian handles the cooking and Jon does the cleaning (since he can get it done faster using his super-speed), but both of them are very flexible when it comes to household chores. BUT...Jon can't cook that well.

I think whenever there is a family dinner at the Kent house, Lois and Damian do the cooking and Jon and Clark are not allowed to even enter the kitchen. It's Lois and Damian's space and they take the time preparing dinner to chat and gossip.

But Jon and Clark can bake really good pies! Jon always makes one for Damian's birthday.

THANK YOU. Can you please further your thoughts on Damian’s parents?

Okay please nobody jump me but...I don't think Talia and Bruce are good parents.

Here is why:

Let's start with Talia.

I think portraying her as pure evil, and as someone who does not love her child is oversimplifying her character. She loves and cares for Damian. But love and healthy parenting is not the same thing...

Even if Talia was convinced, deep down, that she had to act the way she did to ensure Damian’s survival, the result was that Damian grew up with severe emotional and social difficulties. As a mother, your Job is to protect your child from harm. She had the opportunity to hand Damian over to Bruce back when he was still a baby—And she chose not to. Damian was being beaten, tortured, emotionally and physically abused in horrible ways, but she keep him there for the first ten years of his life. She also didn't just decide to give Damian to Bruce one day because of bad grandfather Ra's. Damian had wanted to meet his father for years. But he was only allowed so after he had defeated her in combat. So I can't really give her any credit for that, and even if it had genuinely been her decision...I’m sorry, but that came a good ten years too late. The damage is already done.

Also, a good parent generally helps a child develop empathy and respect for others and I hope we can all agree that ten year old Damian— for all the love I have for him— did not have that. Wich wasn't at all his fault, he was juts a baby, in a foreign country, with people he didn't know and nobody was explaining shit to him. Talia prepared him for neither life in America nor for his father. She just dropped him into the cold water and he had to figure it out himself. Anyway, Damian was arrogant and a little asshole and he was struggling Immensee to form social Connections.

She is undoubtedly a tragic character. She has been through a lot of shit. Given the way she herself was raised, you can hardly expect her to be a good mother. In my opinion, she is a woman who genuinely loves her son, yet she did not break the circle of abuse...

Not let's get to Bruce omg...

I love writing Bruce as a good but flawed parent. Very flawed.

Bruce is emotionally unavailable, and I think that he was also just overwhelmed by raising Damian sometimes. All of his children, but I think Damian in particular, needs a lot of reassurance and safety, that is something Bruce, unfortunately, was unable to give him, even though he tried. Instead of a vulnerable kid needing guidance, like Dick etc, Bruce is confronted with a highly trained, aggressive, ideologically opposed child soldier. Bruce needed help, helping Damian and Damian needed a whole lot of therapy that he probably didn't get. Bruce is also not as affectionate—which is something Damian really needed. I just think that Damian was emotionally very neglected.

So yeah, it's again— he tried his best, but his best was not enough.

The funny thing is, that wasn't even a shipping post. It's literally just them as children. PLATONICALLY.

❗Why I'm sharing this here is because I want to make something clear: I ONLY enjoy the pairing when they are adults, but I do not write or draw romantic content of them as minors. Yes even seventeen. Seventeen is a baby. I won't do that. If you have a different opinion about that, I can't change that, but when you send asks, telling me your headcanons or whatever about this pairing, I only want you to involve adult versions of the characters. I won't respond to anything else.

Shipping them as adults is fine. There are plenty of comics showing them as adults.